it s weekend again...and I am down with allergies and fever...its been two days with all sickness around me...no gym lots of rest required but we had lots of work instead... a pre planned party at my place ..so with all the pills and work ..I waz zoombie ,and jus smiling at everyone being a very humble host!
....But now its even worst.....I think I need to catch with lots of sleep and get ready for work on monday!
Life is not bed of roses! A working women,a mom, a wife and a above all to be nice and humble to everyone during any kind of adversity...
...that's ..life!
..this is one of my favorites..its a punjabi song...singer "Satinder Sartaj "I like this composition ...its basically more devotional kind..like Sufi sangeet....
this songs boosts my morale ..I hear it many times .......
it has english subtitles and is very much for everyone!
...God Bless and all prayers answered with time!
happy weekend!
Sunday, May 15, 2011
Tuesday, May 10, 2011
spring!
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| lily in my front yard. |
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| (tree in full bloom.) |
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| (flower in my yard.) |
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| (my little one in full action.) |
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| he is saaaad now( that's how he says sad ) |
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| (his fav fake smile) |
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| his Harley Davidson :) |
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| (my skate boarder) |
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| (my backyard....in winters it was all snow ,check snow pictures) |
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| front yard |
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| (powder pink flowers in front and back yard) |
(its me :) jus kidding)
Sunday, May 8, 2011
mothers day .
....A feeling of being a mom is something beyond words unless you experience it yourself....
M - O - T - H - E - R
"M" is for the million things she gave me,
"O" the only one for me,
"T" is for the tears she shed to save me,
"H" is for her heart of purest gold;
"E" is for her eyes, with love-light shining,
"R" means right, and right she'll always be,
Put them all together, they spell
"MOTHER,"
A word that means the world to me.
the experience of mom!
..Never before I had so much patience to stay awake all night looking at my child.
...never before I wept looking at any kid getting his vaccinations.
...never before a kid puked on me or poop I have cleaned without hesitation...
....never before I had carpet cleaned without a frown when somebody spills grape juice.
....never before I woke up early in the morning to make a fresh breakfast for anyone .....
....I am into my mom s shoes....I grew up looking at her,jus wanted to be like her...in looks,in patience and all great qualities she had ...I am where ...she was was when we were kids ....
Miss you mom!
happy mothers day!
M - O - T - H - E - R
"M" is for the million things she gave me,
"O" the only one for me,
"T" is for the tears she shed to save me,
"H" is for her heart of purest gold;
"E" is for her eyes, with love-light shining,
"R" means right, and right she'll always be,
Put them all together, they spell
"MOTHER,"
A word that means the world to me.
the experience of mom!
..Never before I had so much patience to stay awake all night looking at my child.
...never before I wept looking at any kid getting his vaccinations.
...never before a kid puked on me or poop I have cleaned without hesitation...
....never before I had carpet cleaned without a frown when somebody spills grape juice.
....never before I woke up early in the morning to make a fresh breakfast for anyone .....
....I am into my mom s shoes....I grew up looking at her,jus wanted to be like her...in looks,in patience and all great qualities she had ...I am where ...she was was when we were kids ....
Miss you mom!
happy mothers day!
Wednesday, May 4, 2011
CAR.
...Dropping my kid to school ..when I came back I saw ..my car scratched badly with a car key or sharp instrument leaving ugly marks on the door!
it was done intentionally...which to me appears to be prank by high school kids!
My brand new car with not a single mark or scratch..it was very upsetting for me..why do people do that??
....Dad usually puts his car in the garage now even if its for short time ..he had similar experience his brand new black car had scratches when it was in the parking lot...when he came back from work it was shock for him to see ugly marks!
The people who have bad intentions usually do this....they try to spoil something that's nice and clean or jus for fun sake...
I could never understand these people and their mentality...may be some abnormal cases of some kind! ..if they are caught it would be serious offence but we cant actually keep track of these people or keep an eye on our vehicle all the time, it not feasible ...
Most of the time when we travel we drive carefully so that there are no accidents and our insurance shouldn't go up or unnecessarily we get a ticket ..But what if somebody hits your car in the parking lot and you don't know about it??
....isn't it sad?
it was done intentionally...which to me appears to be prank by high school kids!
My brand new car with not a single mark or scratch..it was very upsetting for me..why do people do that??
....Dad usually puts his car in the garage now even if its for short time ..he had similar experience his brand new black car had scratches when it was in the parking lot...when he came back from work it was shock for him to see ugly marks!
The people who have bad intentions usually do this....they try to spoil something that's nice and clean or jus for fun sake...
I could never understand these people and their mentality...may be some abnormal cases of some kind! ..if they are caught it would be serious offence but we cant actually keep track of these people or keep an eye on our vehicle all the time, it not feasible ...
Most of the time when we travel we drive carefully so that there are no accidents and our insurance shouldn't go up or unnecessarily we get a ticket ..But what if somebody hits your car in the parking lot and you don't know about it??
....isn't it sad?
Tuesday, May 3, 2011
...9/11...
..it s been hectic week.... and lots of happening around..Major blast was the news of osama bin laden no more or deceased....which made people jump with shock on their respective places!
I remember 9/11 incident ..my uncle was in Manhattan running for his life and the country was on high alert.. I got a call from one of my relatives that uncle was in trouble......so much chaos and thousands of people crying....I called uncle on his cell but it was not responding ....he called after hours ,he is alive!
not many were lucky like him.....
Terrorist have no religion or humanity ,the are brutes on this earth..they belong to no community or country.."what goes around ,comes around"
I had seen the whole 9/11 episode on tv and still very clear to me....
the people who died were civilians..they didn't belong to one country,or one religion...the people who debate or criticize one religion are actually taking out their grudges on other person....
I also read articles where President Barrack Obama is called superman or cracked jokes upon..tell me what wrong did he do? I heard his speech and felt he was very precise as had thanked the troops and country for achievement..never bragged about himself..
finding a criminal in the world and wiping it out from the earth needs precision and guts ...which AMERICA showed up to its word!
....Before taunting or targeting other countries....make sure your facts are correct and it doesn't hurt those people who have lost their dear ones in 9/11 episode!
GOD BLESS AMERICA
I remember 9/11 incident ..my uncle was in Manhattan running for his life and the country was on high alert.. I got a call from one of my relatives that uncle was in trouble......so much chaos and thousands of people crying....I called uncle on his cell but it was not responding ....he called after hours ,he is alive!
not many were lucky like him.....
Terrorist have no religion or humanity ,the are brutes on this earth..they belong to no community or country.."what goes around ,comes around"
I had seen the whole 9/11 episode on tv and still very clear to me....
the people who died were civilians..they didn't belong to one country,or one religion...the people who debate or criticize one religion are actually taking out their grudges on other person....
I also read articles where President Barrack Obama is called superman or cracked jokes upon..tell me what wrong did he do? I heard his speech and felt he was very precise as had thanked the troops and country for achievement..never bragged about himself..
finding a criminal in the world and wiping it out from the earth needs precision and guts ...which AMERICA showed up to its word!
....Before taunting or targeting other countries....make sure your facts are correct and it doesn't hurt those people who have lost their dear ones in 9/11 episode!
GOD BLESS AMERICA
Thursday, April 28, 2011
.... colors!
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| kevin (pissed off) |
I was looking at the pictures today on one of the social networking sites ..where a male(infant) is recognised by blue and ..a.female by (pink)which is very common in US..
I think being an Indian by birth where I was born and raised ..all colours were same and I grew up wearing blue tee or my bro often wore a powder pink shirt...and nobody said anything...BUT ...now I see there are big changes too..(in India)
...The reason I am mentioning this is...In US..all kids go by colours ..its in the environment and school system...( the blue day and pink day)
We were out for weekend and both my sons were sitting along with my cousins son...so all together three boys in the back seat..
We stopped on our way to MacDonald ...in drive-thru to get something for the kids
..Usually drive thru people don't understand and end up making mistakes....and I always say...its better to go inside and get food rather from a drive -thru...
...My husband placed an order for three boys ..kids meal...and we ended up getting two meal for boys and one for girl...and toys with them came in same manner ...in blue and pink watches even the cup for drink was also different...it had some girl y thing on the cup..
both the older ones picked up the blue (my son and my cousin's son),they are almost the same age ..and my younger one who barely three yrs old at that time ended up getting pink toy and the cup....
both the older ones laughed at his pink cup and pink toy..which made the younger one scream and cry ...as to this is for "Girls"....which made us stop the car by taking an exit.....the younger one who hardly knew to speak properly was making maximum noise ,not ready to touch the glass...I told my older son to exchange with him....He said" with tears in eyes "mom I am not a girl"..I said who is gonna see in the car ...its same drink and toy jus matter of colour...Kevin(my son)said...I will never eat this ...its sissy!!!( he and aryan both were in first grade)
I looked at Aryan(my cousins son)..before I could say anything he started crying ...Maasi(mom's sister) no...I don't want to eat anything ..all the three kids were crying....I mean such a noise for Colour!!!
we went to MacDonald again and brought kids meal ...and made sure its in blue and for boys only!!!
....It may sound hilarious...But that's how it works...Men in Blue ..and women in pink....if exchanged its sissy for Guys!!
..right from schools to universities..kids are colour biased and recognise them-self in that way...
When I came first to US ..long back ..this trend was not there in India ..I was surprised when I had my first baby that all it has to be in BLUE..all nurses had stuff in blue for the infant,even diaper's ..the crib had everything in Blue it was so colour conscious....
But with time..it synced inn and now ..I think we ...go by gender biased colours only!
Tuesday, April 26, 2011
..split personality....
(...I usually write blogs on my varied experiences and people I meet...Something like Adult content I usually avoid reading or writing , maybe something I don't feel comfortable...
about females or my counter parts I generally try to be respectful in my blogs unless something really provokes me to write or something as eye opener)
..this lady I had heard and seen many times in public gathering and even on the political side ...covered by media!
I always wandered why she flaunts and tries to be a social figure ...though I never knew about her background and her source of money.....
I saw her with her husband and kids all the time....
...pondering over this thought one day to one of my friends I asked about this women ....as to whose (industrialist )wife is she???
...when I heard ,I mean to hear such things about women was such a shame ...Character being ripped into pieces....I didn't believe her..cause how is it possible ...she is always accompanied by her family!!!
...It was then one day I saw her in a news paper for a campaign ..I was surprised by her looks and dressing sense,it was hard to recognise...she was the only women surrounded by men....it was a social gathering ....
.... sometime back I met one of my friends who's hubby is a fashion photographer....he is very popular in photography field.....I asked her as to who this women is???
..she said"this women migrated to US some thirty or forty yrs back and at that time immigrants were few ..and community was small she was a loner and she made money by all wrong means...or in other words ..she was a big time "SLUT"...
and guy she is married to ..knows everything and doesn't mind ....
....To me it was a shock.... as to what kind of Guy is that?? and now that they have lot of rental properties ..my Friend said...she does lot of charity work
CHARITY..I asked?? this kind of B****
After that I met many people who knew about her past.... but generally people have no respect for her...they laugh,make fun and crack jokes!!!
...with money there should be respect and dignity...A women's shines by her character good or bad!and so much desperation for money where you start selling yourself..is something not identified and agreeable with girls from good families!
what kind of examples are you setting up for your kids....?? it will take generations to get rid of this image ..even though there is open culture here but ... when it come to our culture and thinking as INDIANS ..the community doesn't spare anyone!
..A motherly figure and tag along is something where everybody takes you as laughing stock even though you have tons of money BUT no respect...people avoid you ...try not to stand next to you or even at times pretends not knowing you as friend!
what is use of this money at the end of the day? which brings only insults and disgrace!
about females or my counter parts I generally try to be respectful in my blogs unless something really provokes me to write or something as eye opener)
..this lady I had heard and seen many times in public gathering and even on the political side ...covered by media!
I always wandered why she flaunts and tries to be a social figure ...though I never knew about her background and her source of money.....
I saw her with her husband and kids all the time....
...pondering over this thought one day to one of my friends I asked about this women ....as to whose (industrialist )wife is she???
...when I heard ,I mean to hear such things about women was such a shame ...Character being ripped into pieces....I didn't believe her..cause how is it possible ...she is always accompanied by her family!!!
...It was then one day I saw her in a news paper for a campaign ..I was surprised by her looks and dressing sense,it was hard to recognise...she was the only women surrounded by men....it was a social gathering ....
.... sometime back I met one of my friends who's hubby is a fashion photographer....he is very popular in photography field.....I asked her as to who this women is???
..she said"this women migrated to US some thirty or forty yrs back and at that time immigrants were few ..and community was small she was a loner and she made money by all wrong means...or in other words ..she was a big time "SLUT"...
and guy she is married to ..knows everything and doesn't mind ....
....To me it was a shock.... as to what kind of Guy is that?? and now that they have lot of rental properties ..my Friend said...she does lot of charity work
CHARITY..I asked?? this kind of B****
After that I met many people who knew about her past.... but generally people have no respect for her...they laugh,make fun and crack jokes!!!
...with money there should be respect and dignity...A women's shines by her character good or bad!and so much desperation for money where you start selling yourself..is something not identified and agreeable with girls from good families!
what kind of examples are you setting up for your kids....?? it will take generations to get rid of this image ..even though there is open culture here but ... when it come to our culture and thinking as INDIANS ..the community doesn't spare anyone!
..A motherly figure and tag along is something where everybody takes you as laughing stock even though you have tons of money BUT no respect...people avoid you ...try not to stand next to you or even at times pretends not knowing you as friend!
what is use of this money at the end of the day? which brings only insults and disgrace!
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