A patient listener..

....Going through a discussion on tv..I was taken aback when..the whole big group were talking to themselves and the host was quite not knowing what to do...A group of adults behaving like kids! or should I say ..kids are better then adults ..they at-least raise their hands if they have a question...

...Most of the time ..in gatherings I see people wanting to jump in the discussion not even knowing the real cause of discussion...that itch is there all the time.

its not only offensive but creates an ugly scene ...shows up the personality ..these kinda people are generally very talkative and other wise very shallow...its jus they want the whole discussion in their hand...

..its an insult to other people sitting there discussing an issue..when one jus jumps out of his/her turn and tries to be Jack of all Arts... 

imagine if you are in the shoes of the host?

You show respect and honour to a person when you’re listening.....It also demonstrates you think what they’re saying is important... You may be validating the person by listening to them.  Did you ever think you may be building someone’s self-confidence by listening?  You could be..... Listening is also beneficial for building a credible reputation.  The more you listen, the more others will listen to what you have to say.  Those are just a few reasons why listening is important..

Have you ever noticed that the words listen and silent are spelled with the same letters? Perhaps this is no accident, because in many ways they mean the same thing..

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please it will take a minute ..and try solving this quiz.. it will help you to know more about yourself..

thanks...