I was at work and happened to meet a client ,I was discussing some patterns and designs of our top notch designers, this was a a boy and a girl may be in twenties..I couldn't guess their nationalities ..
I left them to decide about their needs and requirements before going ahead...
As I came back , a co-worker came to me and said "could you tell them to come out ,they are getting intimate and its kinda weird..."
I went back and told them to come out as I have other appointments to handle...before I take our next client...
Virginity is the V factor which is missing .. times have changed and so are the needs ..its like do whatever you like and leave it like a used napkin in trash if he/she doesn't suit your needs...
I remember talking to one of the girls when she said "I don't wanna be a joke among my friends if I don't have a companion or boyfriend" I am a complete person and very much smart " I said" is it? do they make fun?? "she said "the life style is different ,I go with group of friends and when they see me alone they ask"nobody approached you yet? sad!"you are pretty looking girl ...
...dating doesn't stop at platonic relationships it gets physical at one stage and then no looking back ,no hesitancy in getting into physical relationships...
most of the time parents know about their kids and their relationships ...But the irony is ...they have no say "in pursuit of happiness"you cant stop the kid..unless the kid has no stable relationships in past and has hundred percent chances of getting sick in body and mind!
Is virginity important? to me yes! but when I hear people saying "does it matter in past what happened?"its present and qualities and traits of a good human are more important"I cant digest this statement sometime and end up leaving the discussion ...where are ethics and morals??
I was listening to a Debate on dating among Indian's in US ...and most of the teenagers had similar views that its important and YES physical relationships does exist and its no big deal...the ultimate thing is the trust ,faith and love among each other..AT PRESENT.
I grew up in India and to me and my Indian culture they would never permit any dating or relationship before marriage ...
But when I see here parents and even kids( I am talking about Indians) saying all this..its kinda surprise me...as per these statements.
(I would not name the person)
"Itz no big deal for me to get married to a guy whoz not a virgin.....
This is 2011 and as we all know dat no one in this time is maintaining his virginity...I mean few might being doing dat but almost all are well experienced before marriage.....and there is nothing wrong in it."
No wonder we see single moms ,divorces , broken homes and intimacy at public places ...and virgins no more.
