tag time 2012

 Thanks to bikram  http://mann-bikram.blogspot.com/2012/01/love-adventure-and-miracle.html ...I have been tagged by him ...I think one of my oldest friend on   blog...I remember when I started blogging for fun in 2008 ...before that I maintained a diary..and then blogging world started ..first ones to come on my blog was dharmjit and bikram...

Bikram posted a link to read his blog at that time ..after that I met many bloggers.....But somehow some  got offended with some post which I dint understand till date... people have their own mind sets and blocks which you cannot change ...

now picking up the tag ..I hope I do justice to that!!

 – Your most beautiful post

..http://www.hamaarethoughts.com/2011/06/hospice.html

I remember when I met this lady .. I was numb..thinking about her for hrs how could anybody be so brave yet so loving and calm...she was an inspiration to me to let off go those in misery and suffering,, that’s life..

 it got all the attention that wanted and did full justice!

– Your most popular post

http://www.hamaarethoughts.com/2011/09/aging.html#comments

 I was overwhelmed by the response very touching topic it was ..as all of us has to grow old and also go through those same problems...but everyone had their own views which was good to know!

– Your most controversial post

http://www.hamaarethoughts.com/2010/02/mayhem.html

 ... Some people hated for that :) so annoyed ..never knew it would hurt so much ..few of my army friends got annoyed :(posted comments under Anonymous, if you mess with me  dont think putting anonymous comment would help to hide your ids ...I can still see those ids but I never knew I wud start an argument with this post, anyways ..it got resolved with time.

– Your most helpful post

http://www.hamaarethoughts.com/2010/12/lured-by-west.html

 this was a fun post help me to knew wht should I do when I am back home n people are lured by west!

– A post whose success surprised you

http://www.hamaarethoughts.com/2011/10/mother-nature.html

 I was surprised to see the reponse of pictures as I had taken frm my Iphone 4g which I assumed to be very normal..but pictures came out too good

– A post you feel didn’t get the attention it deserved

http://www.hamaarethoughts.com/2009/11/indian-bride.html

 This is very popular post thou but dint get that kinda attention from bloggers as always I see random readers coming to my blog goin through post which is on search engine...

– The post that you are most proud of

http://www.hamaarethoughts.com/2011/05/cash-or-kids.html

Being a mom I can never tell anyone not to go for motherhood... it offended some bloggers but I jus cant change others views n their own fundamentals!

I nominate up to 5  bloggers to take part.

1) UMA
2) MISHI
3)ABHILASH
4)KAVITA
5)AMRIT
congrats  to all the people who have been nominated....those who pick the tag need to nominate at least five more people ..CUZ happiness is all about spreading around and not keeping it to yourself.

lotto!

what if you have a million dollar lotto?? you have a room full of those green bucks and never to work....think think think...

its gonne be fun...eat , drink ,sleep ...so on and so forth ....

its gonna spoil me up....to my butt ;)

no ,I didn't have a lotto...don't get those ideas,But I have dreams ..which I follow and will lead me to my goal one day...I picture it ,feel it and then smile ...getting into that whole luxury would be wonderful....

My son who wants everything available on Tv ..keeps showing me up...Mom see this,see that....I keep saying ok ok....

one day he came to my hubby ...

"Dad when we have a lotto ..then ...I mean I can have lot of Boxer underwear's" ?

hubby"we don't need a lotto for boxer underwear's"he said smilingly ...

I almost fell down from the couch laughing loudly...

kids are so innocent small little things make them happy...they live in a dreamland...say whatever they like unknowingly...but then that's the reason they are called kids!

cash or kids!

thanks everyone...I am feeling much better now! I had to make a trip to Doc...got some good prescription ...and feeling better...
but I did take my friends piece of advice...vodka with orange juice...and some good shots to keep Allergies at bay:D
 now.......

(my son Kevin 2yrs old)

 Cash or kids

......going through a conversation with one of my friends at work ..I was surprised when she said ..I don't want to have any kids !!it will spoil my career for at-least two years..I will be out of modelling world..and getting back to work and shape is something I cant afford as a new-comer.
she is not the only one But  there are many not in  favour of having any kids !is it due to expenses incurred to raise  kids?
To have kids or no kids is a personal choice it can be either CASH or KIDS...
with kids we have to think  in monetary terms too..Cause,to raise one kid it needs all efforts and money ...not to forget when they grow up their university expenses and basic needs,,,,But then if we all think like that and jus concentrate on money or careers and having no kids don't you think we are selfish? or we at some point jus want a life for our self....vacations ,huge bank balances ,mess free houses ..no worries about kids or their future!!
we were brought to this world by our parents who made every effort ..to share their love ,money and every thing they had with us ..and still they share even though we have our own kids?where is the dilemma? or is it  a self-centred
 person who talks like that!

My hubby who  has a Boss who is in the office at 5;30 Am sharp ..and keeps an eye on other engineers and staff ..
I asked my hubby "how come he is never late and always at work"?
my hubby said"this Guy has no kids ..they are like fifty years or so..both of them are holding(his boss and his wife)executive positions in different companies and they sleep around eight and had made a decision to keep life simple and easy!!
..do you think they will need no help or any emotional support when they reach old age? or their decision is good?
....
..this Indian  married couple we met ...they had married each other on this agreement that they will never have kids they just want to keep it simple and easy going.
when we asked why that so? their reply was"it s lots of effort and money to raise one kid and one partner has to sacrifice their career in raising the kid for at least year or so and then we are not fond of kids"
People like them will have money for charities ,adopt pets or take vacations they will have all material luxuries ..and they try to bring happiness in the world.....But a guy with family will try to spend time at home take his wife and kids ..and keep himself happy and try to raise a responsible citizen for future and growth of the nation.
you never know who is the future president or player or artist raised in which family which bring accolades to the nation.
There can be a debate for ever and no end to this...I have kids and I am very fond of kids  ..to me its a good experience to raise and educate the children to be responsible future citizens and it also has its own charm to see little ones moving ,sleeping and talking in their own language ..they are adorable ...and can never be a pain for any mother.
Rest is personal choice!