I always consider this in bad notion even though if its among females for a joke or even a casual fling ...
Winking something I don't like personally..I always pretended to ignore it as its common in India ...(part of eve teasing)..University, College or any other ...public places ..all kinds are people are there..you have to save your self from these lecherous people...BUT what if...
A person has a problem or habit of winking..??
I was at Indian Consulate in Chicago to get some paper work done..
It was Power of Attorney papers for property matters..
I was at the office 9am sharp ..My hubby and one of our cousins we all were together ..
The Indian lady on the desk ..asked my hubby as to show the paper work and all required documents ...once done with the paper work
she looked and said"it all right" and "A Wink"...My hubby without making an eye contact :) asked" who's gonna sign the papers ..do we need an appointment?"
I was looking at the lady ..she said" yes you have to go inside take a ticket and get into the cue .. they will ask your name and number...and then you can get it signed. "A wink"
not knowing what to say.. we managed to find our way..
My hubby.. once we got our number ticket he smiled ...and said"that lady has some weird problem in her eyes, she needs to fix her eyes first... its kinda ... embarrassing."
I am surprised... as to the Indian consulate people don't have a physical check-up for employees like any other corporate... as its a "MUST "
and sitting upfront dealing with public ..needs to be really in decent behaviour whatsoever.
