....weekend....(fav 6)

(Penelope Cruz )

weekend is here ..probably gone!!! sunday came and went ... soo fast...
I keep thinking ..I will do this on weekend or that will be done this weekend But weekend comes  with lot of aspirations and exuberances ..and leaves its marks for Monday....I always ask God....why weekend is not for four days??why why??
every good thing is so short lived!
Its an Easter weekend....all good stores and eating places are closed..people are celebrating Easter  today..barbecues and cocktails ..I can smell those in my back yard..
....I have a beautiful song which is one of my favourites....I love to hear again and again..Music by AR Rehman...(who made India proud at the Oscars)
BTW nobody ever asked me "why do you put songs on weekend?? "...
....any ways  I will tell only when you ask me!

(I didn't translate the song kinda hard for me.)

.................happy weekend.......................................

Beach.

.....we were walking on the beach......
...I had worn my favourite colour peach......

....He looked at me said "you look as pretty as the day we got married"...
.."You are my lovely wife....and nobody can hurt you in my life"......

...Come lets sit and have some wine.............
...so that my love for you can shine......

as he looked into my eyes and said "its been years we have been married"
...he said"BUT ..hey ..why do you look so worried??"...

....I said " I left my purse in the Car "
...he said"Aree yaar,,,,!!


I said "what happened to your pyaar (love)"
(he said)...its always you make silly mistakes and we end up in a war...

(I said)Please ....I never said you go and get it from the car...
(he said)...Hey !!..now it was your mistake and parking lot is not that far...

..As I got up ..holding my hand ...he said "I will get it ,parking lot is far"....
...as he came back and handed me the purse...I admired his qualities really are at par...

....love makes us understand each-other so Far...


.....I hope it always stays that well...and we don't yell....
.....accept each other as we are ,so that there is no war...

...Always,...people say ,men change after marriage as off before....
...I think its human nature and nothing is off for sure....


...Give them a chance and accept it as they are....
..they will care for you more ,then you are....

....this was my love story on the beach....

..I wanted to share this with my friends on my blog....
so that each one of us can remove" ThAT" misunderstanding fog...

and as we love and are ready to make compromises..
there are no guilt of disguises.....

common my friends,its never too late....
before they close the gate....

....all is well that ends well...no sharp edges ,no pain
love plays its role ...in main...

hope you like this poem and gimme an applause
its my first attempt as its a  noble cause ;)


Harman

Mindset!

....it takes a lot for honesty I guess ....or maybe environment plays an important role too...
I am surprised by the mind set and how people dont hesitate ...to make money by illegal means...
this is not the first time though ..I came across an exporter (india)..(usually suppliers) .
...I was talking over the phone about the products and references if he could give any before giving him any contract...
....We usually ...see the websites and check details of these unknown people before signing any contract...or making a deal...
he gave me his website address and details ....I Went through the website ..he was over the phone I checked the prices,this website was through weebly which is free of cost ......he said being a manufacturer ...its jus a sample to our overseas clients .....
I asked him his mode of payment ....he said he has a/c in US bank ....I was little surprised ....he doesn't have a SSN..how is it possible....??
anyways something was wrong ...somewhere I asked about the receipts of payments after delivery of products ...he said "we don't provide receipts to anyone ...as we don't pay taxes, nobody payes here otherwise what will we earn??
I said "I need receipts and proper documents to file taxes  "he said "Madam why do you pay taxes there? "save and earn more"I said it a corporation ".....we have to show IRS...and taxes are MUST...no ifs and buts in that!
He said "I can send you shipments in form of samples "not for commercial purposes"and you can avoid taxes and make money"I said okay...So how many times will you send this as samples"(I wanted to see what length they go and use illegal means)he said "I have my people on airport and agents they help me in customs we are regular suppliers and we send as samples only not for commercial purpose! 
  he was trying to convince me it happens and very common site to avoid taxes!you will never get a query from IRS
..I told him"Well I don't want to go ahead and thanks for calling"
...what a mindset...?? Man if country people think like that ..what will Anna Hazare do alone...corruption is deep down ...its in the roots ...spread all the way to apex...
I mean honesty should be within and as motivation to build the country to bring out the best of abilities and pay the country their dues for the business they are doing ....
this is not the first time I heard from indian exporters dealing it indian designer dresses or costume jewelry..,most of them do this unless they have their head offices in new york or chicago...they try every means to get a top dollar for their products but pay no taxes to the country...(seems like ....I don't care Attitude)make themselves rich to richer ...and least bothered whats goin on the other side!
its weird!
nothing can be done until and unless this kind of mind set is there!!
its a shame!

my fav...(5)

..weekend is here ..and so the fun begins..which is  short-lived :)
Oscar nominated indian movie Lagaan..one of my all time fav ,all songs are at par but this one captures my attention I love the fusion of east and west ...
simple yet very captivating music...
Amir khan one of very fine actors of Indian cinema ,I would place him above bollywood king Shah Rukh khan in every way..and small screen actress made her debut in this movie... Gracy Singh.
Vasundara Das ..sang the English version and did a complete justice to the song ..

Enjoy..happy weekend!

Fashion show!

its been long ...I had been away with work and lots of other stuff....
Last week was very busy ...I  had to attend some fashion shows as everybody is out with their new summer Collection....
This fashion  show was for Islamic wearing ..A very Modest clothing and very elegant at the same time ...
Today in my Blog I would like discuss about this fashion show which was unique and different from all other fashion shows I usually go....the interesting part was ...How could a women look delectable with long dresses from top to toe!its strange... isn't it??
...it was the culottes or flappers with long flarry shirts in chiffon and crepe...Beautiful intricate designs in threads ....
all the models were extra ordinarily tall and and skinny .....and the length of the dresses were up to the ankles with at least three inches pencil heels down the ramp... all the dresses were in muted colors...
this was a  designer from New York displaying her collection for summers....
I cannot show any original pictures on my blog as these are private shows they don't permit ...its copyrighted...

 

umar sayeed collections

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designer dress

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But the pictures I have posted is very close to what I saw ...The bridal collection was awesome..But ended up in thousands of dollars ...Dubai and Pakistani collection  played its role in a predominant way....

Aqua green dominated the show with lavender and pinks......

Now the best part of the show....all models were called  again and the model who got maximum applause had an auction for the dress...it started in hundreds and went in thousands of dollars....A Sale on the Spot!

These auctioned dresses ,its money went for Islamic library to be  built..which was for a noble cause...now this show was sponsored by different companies But only one designer had an opportunity to showcase the collection....
Very graceful and classy stuff was proudly shown by the designer who later came on the ramp...she was an American Muslim (converted) women carrying this collection..


Flaunting or practically wearing nothing might be a fashion statement for many...But I always felt that a women's grace and dignity lies in her dressing sense and graceful persona....I truly felt women "the best creation of God" can look good in anything but all it needs is careful handling of its character and attitude!

28.

..When I first met him ...he smiled and said...you live here..House No 28...(it was in India)I said yes...why? what happened...??

He said ..number 28 has always been with me throughout my life....my roll number was 28, my class was in 28 hall way .....number plate had a sum of 28 ,my house no has last two numbers as 28 one way or other I have been with this number...

I smiled ....thought may be he is trying to impress me!

Any ways...he never mentioned 28  after that!but I remembered it and noticed it more often....

We got engaged on 28 june (no other place was available)it was heavily booked..so we had to go with this option only...I was surprised...how numbers play its role...

...We came to US ....and the first house we brought ...we had to take an Exit 28 (Ann arbor road)to reach that house...I looked at the house it had number (435)28 in the end  again...I smiled and told him....to see that ..."number 28" how it is attached to him and  his stars....

....We were watching world cup together .....where India won After 28 yrs..

Giving him a hug I said....28 has A great impact on our lives....

he Smiled and said... yes it has been a lucky charm to me!

..Seriously I can't believe ..how this 28 is so associated with my hubby and our lives...Numbers I guess plays important part in our lives!

what's your lucky number? plz share your personal experiences if you had any with any of these numbers.

WE WON!

..We Won the World Cup Cricket...after 28 years....it was an Awesome win!!
.....I jus cant express my happiness..I Danced at every boundary..I got chills at every wicket down....and Tears trickled down when I heard people cheering Vande Mataram for the country!
I am proud of India  ...It was a well deserved win... Indians all over the world are congratulating each other....

Such a charismatic play, on the other hand  so much boost from the crowd ...it was worth watching from five thirty am to one forty pm....

Thanks to all the country men and players..keeping up the flag high
Congrats N
God Bless!