..Sitting here at work on my chair and looking out WHT the f***..so cold -45 f.. schools closed ..wind-chill, slush you name it..Its there.. I came to work like driving on banana peel .. seems like I m going to hit somebody. Snow drives me crazy..and worst when its like haunted town .. last week it was like north pole ..this week wind chill warning ..I would like to ask God " O God ..what mistake we made as to you have shown these days.?? so much snow and temp dropping to -45 f is insane "
I was always a sunshine person.. infact dad called me my sunshine.. but see where I landed inn.. like a Nancy Drew in an haunted house ..where none seen only snow n snow ..I mean tons of snow.. life gets disrupted and with so much stuff on you need to have good strength
..cap ,gloves , ear muffs , jacket , snow boot .. its like counting on everything before moving out.. Cleaning cars in the morning driving me NUTS n guy on gas station filled washer fluid which doesn't work in cold..hazy windshield.. GAWD ..hope this period is over PERIOD
..Devyani khobragade.. we are all very well aware of this name and identity... "those who don't know google it" The indian diplomat who was been held for visa fraud and making false statements.. its was on trial with a final verdict .. Devyani was sent back to India .. Found guilty But I m surprised how people of india supported devyani for wrong deed.. jus because she is indian doesn't mean she is fair.. why the hell we support frauds and corruption when our country has already gone to DOGS.. if there is something left its due to bunch of good and honest people .. rapes, corruption , theft ..name it and its there.. to eradicate the evil we need to balance .. charity starts at home .. We are all same made by God .. there was no caste system .. no servants , no maids ..its jus dire need of money people indulge in petty jobs..living in US we do all the work cleaning to mopping.. laundry to cooking .. if cannot do it we leave it for weekends but has to be done by us.. Maids from india on Visa and then treated like a slave .. WHY?? if Devyani was really super human and very kind .... As assumed by our people
maid and her husband
as supporters are doin why would a maid complain?? if she was nice..why would she come out.. oh HELLO .. its our mindset back home we serve food maids in the end ..with left overs make them sit on floor.. ,, and then if they fall Sick we would like to kick them rather heal the wounds .. as most of the people are so used to their own comfort they don't like to be taken out from comfort zone.. Stepping out of india means NO MAIDS for sure ..if you are such a lazy lump.. get a lady hired on daily basis and she will do same thing pay hefty sum ..But never ever play with LAWS here in US.. My kids went to day day care we paid a hefty sum every month.. why? we know its a law ..who else will help ... people who make money should have heart to spend.. making money in US dollars and spending in Indian rupees ..its only our own good and honest so called Devyani can do!! such a shame she has brought to India!!
...Sometimes kids are amazing .. it seems like these infants cannot speak but at heart understand every word.. I was completely taken aback when I saw this video ..the kid emotes so well at this tender age of 9 months. Its unbelievable .
check this out..
..I mean its like reacting to every lyric and understanding it..there is no doubt we understand and learn from day one... but its a different case when we keep ours self away in our own isolated world pretending to be unaware of things goin around us ..and people term it as ignorance.. ..
..Its a great NEWS ..our brave heart got justice ..the final verdict .. I was kinda rejoiced to hear a very clear cut judgment. ..Nothing absolutely nothing should pitfall ..its time to make them realize DARE NOT ..the consequences can be fatal.. The Fiasco is no more ..the Capital punishment has made aware that public and only public can rule .. Never underestimate power of common man.. I felt bad when I heard there was a lawyer in defense .. for what? saving these beasts ?? their parents should be Ashamed for this Act they should never appeal .. as a matter of fact it should be a set example for other parents ..disown the kid ..if they stoop that low.. As for juvenile I would say there is no age bar for crime specially if its a rape .. He should also be thrown in same HELL..as others thank you MY LORD to bring justice for our brave heart !! Truth n only truth will prevail in the END
I eagerly await this date.
"offer an help when in need don't turn your back, you might be the next one asking for same help very soon"
.. it very disgusting to hear another Gang rape in Mumbai .. seems like people are sexed up in India.. ...HEY ..Guys go to sex workers ..they will do you a favor.. ( those dirty filthy places) rather then harassing the Gurlz in public broad day light..its cheap ..its bad.. The respect seem to be lost where female is looked upon as a sex object in India .. another point that comes to my mind is there is no fear of law in criminals mind.. where the cops seems to be on heavy doze of sleeping pill and gets up only when there is emergency or alarms ringing. The politicians have their own share by asking heavy amount of mullahs to get rid of whole thing and set culprits free .. ...The Nirbhaya case in Delhi is still in our minds how the girl was tortured and this came in as News that there is another one.. I would make a request to Indian govt please hand over these criminals.. five of them to public in front of parliament house on set date and instead of capital punishment jus let people rip them publically so that no one ever dare to do this again .. We don't need fast track courts , funds , or committees ..its jus one shot decision.. cuz people in india the general public should come up with strength over the ruling party to join hands .. as it can happen to anyone..
its HALL OF SHAME .. where every other person is talking about this...in world .. For India I wont hesitate say it runs on politics or bribe ..nothing really happens...NOTHING. what if this happens to any celebrity , or politician .. then??.. that day is not far when it will happen in our home. With our own daughters or sisters.. its a wake -up call .. its shouldn't be days , weeks or months .. for decision ..it should be instant once culprits are caught we don't need many witnesses when victim is alive.. jus need to cut the organs which seem to be over active.. SHAME!!
..I think I m among very few people in this world .. who has never gone through love at first sight .. when people come and tell me .."OMGD I m head over heels in love with him ...I m like ..is it ..jus at looks ?? I remember ..when I liked someone ..it took me couple of years to get into this love thing ..but then again not sure of myself ..and looking at my strict mother and Dad who served indian Army ..I was like .. it would be a war at home better keep this to myself and lead a care-free life . ..Life these days is very fast ..girls like to date .. check the bank balances and then give a chance ,,.. With chance I mean ..give it a try .. for your sexual needs ..which to me is disgusting !! ..I had friends in those days too when studying at Punjab University Chandigarh..doin all the stuff which was a big NO in indian community .. But then like dare devils they had broken all rules... they dated .. fulfilled their desires ..and now I see them ..passing statements at others... Coming to love at first sight ... wht do you love when you see a person at first?? looks , gestures..?? ..well I would say how abt a car ..a sports car?? but then you need to spend life with him or sports car?? generally people ask .."hey in india you guys have arranged marriages??I m like yeah ..so?? so whts the criteria ??..is it money ,looks , education ... ..I was like I never .. thought of money ..yeah education was must cuz ..I hate people who have no manners ..or not so educated!! .. but then ..how can you love a stranger?? I m like how can you like a person at first sight without even knowing him or her?? ...A friend of mine ... she is like you know the guy I dated before was so nice .. he knew to cook ...ironing the clothes was the best part of him keeping house well-maintained .. but things dint work .. his job wasn't paying enough.. I thought I guessed it right ..poor thing spending all time at home ..where is time to make money! ..to my mind people who have love at first sight actually have no brains ... or should I say .. dumb?. people say you fall in love ..but I would say ..rise in love use your brain... ..Arranged or love marriage give it a time ..use your own brain .. think before you jump to a decision ... livin relationships or commitment of marriage .. needs to be a wise decision ... :)
.. I met shina again .. after a year almost ..I couldn't recognize her ..she looked different ..Gained weight some scars on her body .. Shina is one of our clients.23 yrs old...I had been seeing her off and on ..but lately she disappeared ..no clue.. Shina is a white blonde I knew from some time, ..I always wanted to tell her to dress appropriately as I always saw her in skimpy outfits and plunging necklines .. But couldn't say as this was something very personal I felt .. I might sound weird here but when a female has big boobs she should be conscious rather then flaunting ..I Being an Asian American and hailing from India we were always taught to dress up in respectful way..its not just us but to for others too to have respect for us.. Talking about shin looking at her I asked her "hey long time no see..whts up??' Shina looking at me said "herman you know I was trapped by bikers.. but luckily saved" I was like ...wht???.. Here goes the story (as said by her) Shina was driving on the freeway .. on her little car.. saw couple of bikers behind her .. the chase followed when they started hooting at her ..this happened for couple of minutes left ..right n center.. They were trying to confuse her ..and not knowing wht to do she dialed 911 looking at the bikers gang ..but before cops could come inn the car hit the concrete wall on the side and she fell down .. she was bleeding profusely .. ..the cops came inn by then when she was on the road .. and took her to the hospital ..laying there for months with scars and bumps .. fracture in leg .. she could barely move..paid a heavy price .. no job no money!! She said I was saved at the nick of the time..thankful to God ..when you move in the crowd be a part of it .. nothing should give false alarms to people for which you have to pay a heavy price.. Dressing is for our self .. less or more clothes BUT APPROPRIATE ..that should be the key .. bra tops like kim kardashian.. with skimpy shorts will give wrong signals to people .. may be not the first time ..you might enjoy attention.. but then in the long run it might put you in trouble .. Dress appropriately ..dress respectfully..
