Good books..

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I am sometimes surprised by lack of maturity or wisdom when I see people deliberately trying to make a fool of themselves.. 
fool for what? you might be wondering... 
In today's world everything is materialistic .. or something I would say status symbol.. people brag for every other thing.. money ,looks or contacts ,,
But did you ever think .. what are we trying to prove?? whose good books we wanna be? 
among rich people? among status symbols? .. 
spending Five crores on wedding .. for showing how rich we are? or trying to be in the elite upper class society??
customizing every other need for guests as per their status .. for what?? to be in their good books and make money from business contacts??
Somewhere I feel .. you are a lost soul.. lost in this materialistic world.. why be in good books of rich people ..why not be in good books of GOD//

how to be in his good books? 
.. Help help and help .. 
get blessings from everywhere ,, we need more of those ... not only for this life but for next too..
KARMA will come back.. show up your worth .. try to deal with down trodden .. being anonymous,, millions of kids sleep without food give them food or arrange some help.. there is no water ..people walk for miles to get drops of water.. quench their thrust  .. see how blessed you will be..
that happiness on kids face will be worth million smiles... or that old lady blessing you with smile when you help her out from debt or poverty,, is priceless .. it will cure thousands of your wounds.. inside .. calm yoiu down..which cannot be healed with money ..
being in his good books are more important then these .. greedy evil people ..who will eat dance and abuse you when they reach home.. 

Good books of almighty is right route to humanity .. service to humanity .. service to GOD ..
its easy simple doesn't take lot of money ... but you need BIG HEART .. little bit every day in any kind.. trust me .. you will blessed for life..
try to be simple in deeds nothing calculative .. YET very strong in service to GOD.. 
my whole idea of writing this article is .. save your money for blessings and not partying .. 
we wanna be in his goodbooks..thats where real worth will be seen ..today or next life..

GOD BLESS YOU

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being punjabi,,

.. Sometimes I feel being an indian and then a punjabi is deadly combination , an action to a reaction ..n then finally there is some melodrama ,,, 
Kids when they grow up and understand the language its always fun to see how they react to an indian phrase n specially punjabi,,,
last night both my boys are jumping around ..and my little one 8 yrs ,, did a somersault from bed and landed on floor out of the blue,,,totally shaken ..n scared I said immediately.. "dimaag ch nuks hai"? (mental disorder).. older one 13 yrs laughed so loudly .. actually banging the floor in his delight,,  like Mom you are a real punjabi instead of being sympathetic that child might get hurt .. .. you are yelling!!I m like ,, what made you do that? sitting quietly n playing .. that was an instant ,, action ,,,!!
after a while I felt .. what made me say that??
I get annoyed by loud music ,running in house .... lots of people .. its not me..
quite n poised and reading books at the most jus some music at times to my ears only..thats more of me .This little kid of mine might be like his dad :P but I looked at my hubby ,, who hardly talks very quite ,, n rarely see him yelling..he is different too .. it must be my little boys age n all that energy .. makes these kids jumping like monkeys..
but I felt what if  I had said same phrase in an Indian crowd it would be definitely funny or somebody would be laughing at me.. embarrassing !!.
reactions are instant as actions
but then ,, we learn from kids .. n can analyze our-self better... 
.. Keeping it to yourself and handling situation very well needs lot of patience,.. which one learns with age .. so..may be I m not in that age..n will learn gradually.
made me happy n guilt free, yo 

:) 

Plead

 all we all need to do is PLEAD  ..in-front of God 

..what happened in pairs is yet to be digested ,, what happened in USA is never forgotten ..what happened in India is still bleeding ..what happened in Syria people are still crying  ..
I m really surprised who is breeding all this ??
we cannot say its a religion or community or country..
everyone ..every religion every race has lost their life.. 
its evil minds n thoughts or I can say need for food or money .. its always said .. "please don't breed if you cant feed"
I mean its getting worse day by day ..every now n then you hear a blast hundreds of people killed
fear sits in everyone's heart .. bad to ugly n then ugly to worse .. n nothing can be done .. 
you killed ours we will kill yours .. innocent people are also killed..
many widows , many orphans .. God please .. we need your help .. please .. come n see why demons are more then humans .. we need help !! 
Best creation of God is human .. every religion say that.. did he make us like this? 
what exactly are they fighting for? religion? which religion is supreme ? money? revenge? 
let me jus give you my thought .. its always taught .. best part of humanity is providing a helping hand .. being courteous helping down trodden .... to make your life a blessing. 
Messengers of GOd always taught humanity ..every holy book says same .. ideology is same ..
but that hatred .. that killing is different .. its a nexus made .. made by evil , demons who want to rule the world.. 
people please who can see all this ,, raise your kids very well spend time on them  keep a reality check.. strong nations n humans are built on strong foundations.. 
and also every religion should take up preaching own community their effects n after effects of this evil stuff..to avoid further damage .. show them what holy book says also post stuff on internet which shows where we are wrong in religion in guidance as per our thoughts its an awareness an enlightenment ..to all share bring some light .. 
every little step will bring success n stop this bloodshed  
GOD bLESS !

.." fresh flowers are like fresh thoughts they bloom bring smile ,happines , and a fresh start to a season." 

being naked!

Every moment of life we learn..
learning never stops .. 
but some times real life instances make you wonder ..where is the limit?? some people surpass every limit..
I workout everyday an hour in Gym .. ..The women s lockers are like right in front as you enter there are lockers n then powder room n showers n then washrooms..
many a times I see girls removing their tanks an going to gym in sports bra which is very well covered ..and looks decent ,,,I generally see all ages .. starting from 23 yrs to 78 yrs.. in which maximum percentage consists of senior citizens .. 
Friday is busy day at gym no parking n lot is full ..kicks my butt moving from one end to another.
I went inside checked inn its 24/7 and headed straight to locker room as I entered I was numb .. a fully naked women sitting n moisturizing herself .. I was like really? I thought no its not ,, I turned n saw her back again to be sure  ..  .. I wasn't  dizzy .. she was naked .. n ladies inside were jus changing and moving totally ignorant of the fact she is naked. 
I had heard many stories in past too people move naked in locker rooms or in showers at pool vicinity too ..cuz its a culture n there is no hesitation .. but being an Indian its not our culture I was little embarrassed .. cuz it never happened n person like me who gets scared even in dreams if I see myself naked ..here a women so confident ly moving around with no clothes.
..last year during our bridal show I went  back to get the outfit from one of our models I was amazed to see girls getting half naked ,, in changing room ,, I was oh! but seems like its a culture shock for me .. cuz we have grown up in conservative  society .. liberal in thoughts but conservative dressing..
When we see people at this extent then we realize where exactly we are...in which world we are living in and how liberal people are in thoughts,body n mind .. I was not only surprised by her nakedness but also people who were totally ignoring her and moving back n forth ..
Life is full of surprises .. n sometimes we learn .. learn wht??
learn to accept , learn to respect n learn to keep your eyes ahead :) instead of staring ..
.. usually we as Indians stare at each other a lot in western world to make sure its indian or Mexican !

I usually say under my breath if someone stares at me,its ok fine I m an Indian no doubts now.
:)

life moves on...

.. ..its very strange when people say .".O time flies".. or "hey it looks like it jus happened yesterday"
I would say ,, what if time doesn't move ? what if everything comes to standstill ? do you think we make wonders and complete pending work or do something extra-ordinary..
wht if we had 48  hours instead 24 hours ? what if we had an extra Sunday before Monday an 8th day in a week .. life would come to a full circle?
Its strange when you hear something unusual ,..I being a very optimistic person and full of life hate resentments ..would love as it going would like to spice it up though ;) but why say like that O it happened so fast ,, I couldn't register ..I would say ,, Babes it was a splendid moment and you enjoyed ..so it went fast ..if it was hell you would have said ..Common I need to get out of this hell.
.. Like a honeymoon phase enjoy..
one of my friends got married .. the bride and groom never showed any picture to public .. jus a hazy kiss of both .. or may be holding hands .. one can guess whats going on .. but later if this couple says O it went to fast ..  then? I would say guys ..enjoy life its in your hand make it happy and better place to live ..and make others happy too
I went to California for vacation ,,it went smoothly.. I came back n people were like did you like it? did you see the weather ?..even better then India.. so much sunshine,,I m like .. really .. " something back of mind reminded me our CM Badal (punjab) promised Punjab would be like California .. I m like good at least you have raised the bars high..Mr CM .. 
getting back to un-usual .. tag lines .. I don't understand people.. like I wish we had more Christmas holidays .. I m like dude.. "you are in US .. thanks to Santa for this gift .. some countries have none " 

talking of unusual tag lines .. life move still goes on against odds. Sometimes I feel we obstruct  in between God and his plans,, he has made this for a reason.. thou reasons have to be de-coded with time ..like you enjoy DATES ..n at the same time we have BITTER GOURD ,, but we cook  bitter gourd it in such a way it becomes a delicacy .. a sumptuous food
handle the situation ,, everything will taste sweet .. life will be beautiful..

"Never complain  Good fortune  takes a back door 

take life as it comes and strive for best."

hamaare thoughts

 ..some of my personal thoughts .. which I have penned down with pictures..
every step of life ..you learn, you see different situations and react.. you fall ..you wiggle .. then you kick back  life.. with same zest and energy ..
..past few weeks I have been observing lots of these kinds of situations ..and sometimes God surprises me with what it had in store for me..
all well that ends well I guess!
..hope you like my personal thoughts.

AIB Roast

.. this is something beyond my imagination .. a certain platform given to celebrities and they crack jokes breaking all the limits .. not in weirdest dreams can I imagine Deepika padukone laughing n enjoying porn jokes  N not only that even laughing at lewd remarks passed on her ..she is dumb?I doubt ..Alia was the coveted award winner ..
at one place they made a comment that deepika is hooked to Ranvir Singh as she could not get Ranbir ,,for a second there was some embarrassment .. on her face ..
Deepu "when you are in dirt ..some spots will be on your face too "
 ..Karan johar a well known producer director and respected person actually using abusive language n showing filth is his mind though his tongue and then by his actions .. 
I was like really..Karan ?? you parenting was not done right .. some loop holes we can see .. I was toatlly shattered when I saw Karan Johar mother laughing at those jokes enjoying,,,I mean wht wrong here .. some kind of lunatic attack....MORONS
...I was warned by one of friends not to watch this show as its very vulgar ... unexpectedly bad .. a very bad satire ,, only Karan , Arjun and pervert Ranvir can understand ,,,
I still took a chance ..wht language    ..phew!
..all of them should be booked for showing filth of their mind and kept in prison so that it sets an examples to others in line ..
India already is in red with number of rape cases N no security for women  many other things go unattended  ,,,,do we need more stuff ...hard to handle..
then candle light march with white clothes that drama .. !!!
I mean Guys show some decency ,, 
and ladies in audience show some respect ..leave the venue in resentment ,,,show guts!

I had recently given my opinion on this at one of the post in times of india ..jus what I felt ..its had huge applause and likes 
check the link below.