Guzaarish!!

 
 ..last night I saw movie Guzarrish....it came on netflix...and we have wii so ..its easy to xcess netflix.....
Guzaarish is an Indian movie hitting international movies ..top of the charts....starring...the Indian spider-man ...krishh boy Hrithik Roshan...and lovely lady miss world Ashwariya rai..(pride of India)...
I came from work ...with bad weather ..so thought of seeing this movie...to cheer up my mood...though it was not a Friday night..but still ..I could not resist....not knowing the real impact it would have on me....

The opening scenes ..of the movie....it looked like a haunted house..and patient on the bed...Oh God !!a quadriplegic ...what a tragedy....but then ....as it moved ..it moved my soul..ripping me to small pieces ...and then creating shivers of pain and headaches...

.Ironically it a wonderful piece of art portrays a journey towards death...called a mercy killing to relieve one from pain and anger...it is joyous, rapturous and ecstatic celebration of life....where a great magician becomes a slave and looks forward to death ....literally appealing people as it should be justified for him legally....
Aishwarya plays a graceful role this time and though her character is subdued she shows her power in few critical sequences and makes her presence felt strongly. Despite doing a non-glamorous role, her natural beauty and appeal was radiating.....The make up is little loud at certain places..(that is my general opinion!!thou...)

...I was getting sick as the movie ..moved ...scene to scene ....all goose bumps looking at how in a moment life changes and real worth is seen......my husband ..looked at me  said..are you ok?...no..I have nausea and headache !!I said...its sick....looking at me he ,he said...I have an engineer ..a team lead who is like this....a super intelligent guy...who is on wheel chair and my office moves with him....I see him everyday ..on wheel chair working ,giving orders in spite of his disabilities.... whose body is paralyzed but his brain is very active..he has all plans chalked out for a year ....I sometimes make coffee for him and put in his pipe ,where he drinks by himself....I don't feel sick....its life...!!!

...not in a mood to argue....I went upstairs and slept with nightmares.... got up with severe headaches...and popped up some pain killers!!!
well seriously if somebody tells me to watch it again ...I will never do!!!

Women ...and her word power!

 the eight favorite words every women says and the meaning to each....

1. Fine: This is the word women use to end an argument when they are right and you need to shut up.

2. Five Minutes: If she is getting dressed, this means a half an hour. Five minutes is only five minutes if you have just been given five more minutes to watch the game before helping around the house.

3. Nothing: This is the calm before the storm. This means something, and you should be on your
toes. Arguments that begin with nothing usually end in fine.

4. Go Ahead: This is a dare, not permission. Don't Do It!

5. Loud Sigh: This is actually a word, but is a non-verbal statement often misunderstood by men. A loud sigh means she thinks you are an idiot and wonders why she is wasting her time standing here and arguing with you about nothing. (Refer back to #3 for the meaning of nothing.)

6. That's Okay: This is one of the most dangerous statements a women can make to a man. That's okay means she wants to think long and hard before deciding how and when you will pay for your mistake.

7. Thanks: A woman is thanking you, do not question, or Faint. Just say you're welcome.

8. Don't worry about it, I got it :Another dangerous statement, meaning this is something that a woman has told a man to do several times, but is now doing it herself. This will later result in a man asking 'What's wrong?' For the woman's response refer to #3.

guess why???

she is one my close buddy ,my cousin..from Winnipeg Canada..so I generally end up laughing rather then getting annoyed...her jokes ,forwarding messages,pictures, every other news from any relative from India ...she has it all...any recipe I have to discuss I call her immediately...she is a very good cook too....

I got a call one day in my office ..it was my cousin ,she was very anxious to tell me ...I was with a client..I told her to call in half an hour....she called again ...and again...I called her at last....

Neetu  said"Di you know something Amazing"? What?I asked

she said"I met a Canadian women in a store and she asked me what my age will be in current year ....and then told me to add up with the year of my birth last two digits!!.(26years plus 1985....26+85=111)...the answer will be 111..
I did it and the answer was triple one...but it not for me only anybody in the world if does that the answer will be triple one..and we are in 2011...for little kids it will be double one,(11)..isn't it amazing''?

I did  for myself..it was 111...

any guesses how this works???why it works for everyone!!!

(don't google,just try to answer by yourself ) I also did  calculations myself.....

Ranjha..

"...heer nu lagye khere ...ranjhe reh gaye majaha char de"(heer was married ..and ranjha was left grazing the cattles...)the etrnal love story "Heer Ranjha"

 

In modern times where every girl considers herself  Heer( the epic beauty) ..and boys as ranjhe..( dude of all times)

the reason I picked up this topic...every other guy you talk to behave like ranjha...when their love turns sour..

recently I was talking to one of my online friends who was very upset;tho this is not the first time I heard this....I am surprised how one sided love plays its role ....and then blame the girls for not being loyal...I mean if you have guts why not ask her directly so that you know the answer rather then sulking ...or like slow poisoning your mind against the poor girl who never admitted she was in love ....

 talking of all the Heer's ...of modern times they change with time even if it was a stable relationship...lured by money or looks ..girls change with season too....which emotionally destroys the other partner....and they behave exactly like ranjha's..dirty clothes,no shave..no dressing sense ,lost in thoughts and life on edge!!

.....its  a known fact ,if  love is not given a marital status...anything is bound to happen...its like hit and trial method!even after marriage there are chances of Adultery or cheating but at least there is some legal document or parents or relatives that might help...

.....if she opted out of this ,then you move on ,otherwise its like hell ..life is to move.. and our xperiences makes us wiser...

to be ranjha or behave like one is very simple ....but to be poised and calm not reacting but moving to wards a better life partner is  something more constructive...

God Bless!!

Junk mail!

 

I get lot of hilarious stuff in my mails.....I sometimes think am I an idiot to get these kind of mails...All JUNK!!
now most of the names are one of its kinds..like Wicton xempe (the mail says)
mam,
I have huge deposits in my bank,I was wondering what should I do?(this was an e-mail)
(I wanted to say"throw it in the trash Can,best place)
another one,
I am very poor ,on streets... totally bankrupt ..please help me with just $20 hope its not big amount as all of my past friends are helping me ,it will solve my purpose....and then sad story sob sob sob!!!
another one..
Hey you won a million dollar,now let us know how you want your payments to be made(I was okay but I never had a lotto ticket)...we generally pay in easy payments of $50000 each ,if its good for you(lol)now can we get your bank information and all fine details ...(sure,so it will be in a reverse manner,my bank will be empty in seconds)

Hey do you want to be a millionaire with just fifty bucks ,invest now ,best opportunity...fill these forms join us...I went to link ....it was all fine details..including SSN and bank information...
Trust me all these e-mails look real..with name of companies and telephone numbers ,even people are there to answer your calls..
I tried calling one number,,,they said"you are the lucky winner ...A grand prize of 1 million dollar,my hubby sitting next to me ..smiling ...I said"so when should I come to collect my money??"they said..NO,not personally ..we transfer in your checkin a/c ..or savings ..so we need your routing and bank a/c number..plus their is  a seminar at 6:30 am on Sunday with breakfast,we will publicly announce the winner ....I said "ok(thinking at back of my mind publicly announcing biggest fool of the year)....But I don't have any bank a/c "..then you cannot get money...you have lost it!
Few days back I got a letter from a Car dealership with a car key..."it was Porsche "it said "you have WON this"!!the letter had a beautiful picture..I imagined myself driving  a hatchback ...smiling at my stars..I said"GOD TUSHI GREAT HO" (god you are great)everybody  looking at me so happy with the letter and key....BUT I when I read the whole letter it said "offer expires"***...it was past the due date..and now you can get a brand new Porsche if you sell your existing car......another Fake one!!

these are all fake mails which appear to be very genuine! they just try to squeeze money "... in this trap my cousin lost$300 which was withdrawn every month for no reason when we called the number it didn't exist ..this  existed few months back ,one thousand dollar was withdrawn by the time we put a stop payment with the bank..it was so fast.... we thought it was for  auto insurance....but came to know when auto insurance which was real ..was charging separately!!
A thumb rule...never never give your bank information to anyone unless you are sure...these are all fraudulent transactions appeared to be genuine!!

negligence.

 

...recently I had been hearing lot deaths due to negligence or ignorance of health ....its very common in Indian community in US not to see a doctor unless there is a serious problem....its like even if the insurance pays for it..Annual Checkups are for a reason ...its mandatory but people take it lightly,but  then when the time comes its full n final...
I recently heard an Indian women in early sixties ..died ..she had prolonged stomach ache ....and finally decided to have to have checkup thoroughly BUT it was too late...the cancer had spread all over her body  and her days were numbered ...she was moving from one hospital to another ...but nothing could help they said its too late!!..the end came just two days back...and it was very sad..everybody was repenting...but it was too late!
..such carelessness for health ? self medications another health hazard,not visiting doctor or any annual checkups..why? ignoring eye exam or dental ..is nothing but inviting problems in future!
"prevention is better then cure"...
There is always a reason ...that they send letters at home when annual checkups are due! reminders on phone too ,to make an appointment...all annual checkups are covered by major insurances..even if its not, insurance can be purchased or annual checkups can be done by paying upfront ...health is more important then money..after all we earn for what? its for good and healthy life!
 The maintenance also includes all this with gyms and  fashion...The idea of check-ups usually doesn't sync with most of the people ...when we talk of doctor's..most of the people say..in olden days no check -ups were there and people still lived BUT then think life expectancy was not more then sixty or so....and people in early forties or thirties had many health problems....
In today world where we have Internet and so much awareness ,why ignorance of health??

pictures!

keeping you  updated with weather conditions,,,see for yourself....

the snow conditions!!

the first picture is hilarious...thou

 

 this is what happens when you are caught by COPS in US....don't miss the Dog(lol)

 Dude..nothing works in this kind of snow,Snow blower was pissed off.

 Look at the Cars ,whose going to clean this stuff,it will take hours of hard work...and then Pneumonia...for sure

 nice view..but only from the window.

 this is my Barbeque in the back yard on my deck(lol)

 see my back yard and snow dont miss the bush on the side!

 Thats how my car was the other day,imagine how I had to clean this mess!

 this is all lush green in summers with sprawling lawns,look how it is now!!

Cut the cake please!!this is my patio table ...

Crazy women cycling in snow.....

 everybody has to clean their property side walks,no domestic help here!!

route for children to walk to bus stop

snow came and left..its marks on everyone's backyard!

my deck ..aligned with snow!!

weather condition's in Michigan is too bad ,we have winters for almost six months and spring is very short...

every season has its own charm BUT  if given in moderate quantity....otherwise its like this, inn pictures above~!
GOD BLESS AMERICA!!!