life moves on...

.. ..its very strange when people say .".O time flies".. or "hey it looks like it jus happened yesterday"
I would say ,, what if time doesn't move ? what if everything comes to standstill ? do you think we make wonders and complete pending work or do something extra-ordinary..
wht if we had 48  hours instead 24 hours ? what if we had an extra Sunday before Monday an 8th day in a week .. life would come to a full circle?
Its strange when you hear something unusual ,..I being a very optimistic person and full of life hate resentments ..would love as it going would like to spice it up though ;) but why say like that O it happened so fast ,, I couldn't register ..I would say ,, Babes it was a splendid moment and you enjoyed ..so it went fast ..if it was hell you would have said ..Common I need to get out of this hell.
.. Like a honeymoon phase enjoy..
one of my friends got married .. the bride and groom never showed any picture to public .. jus a hazy kiss of both .. or may be holding hands .. one can guess whats going on .. but later if this couple says O it went to fast ..  then? I would say guys ..enjoy life its in your hand make it happy and better place to live ..and make others happy too
I went to California for vacation ,,it went smoothly.. I came back n people were like did you like it? did you see the weather ?..even better then India.. so much sunshine,,I m like .. really .. " something back of mind reminded me our CM Badal (punjab) promised Punjab would be like California .. I m like good at least you have raised the bars high..Mr CM .. 
getting back to un-usual .. tag lines .. I don't understand people.. like I wish we had more Christmas holidays .. I m like dude.. "you are in US .. thanks to Santa for this gift .. some countries have none " 

talking of unusual tag lines .. life move still goes on against odds. Sometimes I feel we obstruct  in between God and his plans,, he has made this for a reason.. thou reasons have to be de-coded with time ..like you enjoy DATES ..n at the same time we have BITTER GOURD ,, but we cook  bitter gourd it in such a way it becomes a delicacy .. a sumptuous food
handle the situation ,, everything will taste sweet .. life will be beautiful..

"Never complain  Good fortune  takes a back door 

take life as it comes and strive for best."

hamaare thoughts

 ..some of my personal thoughts .. which I have penned down with pictures..
every step of life ..you learn, you see different situations and react.. you fall ..you wiggle .. then you kick back  life.. with same zest and energy ..
..past few weeks I have been observing lots of these kinds of situations ..and sometimes God surprises me with what it had in store for me..
all well that ends well I guess!
..hope you like my personal thoughts.

AIB Roast

.. this is something beyond my imagination .. a certain platform given to celebrities and they crack jokes breaking all the limits .. not in weirdest dreams can I imagine Deepika padukone laughing n enjoying porn jokes  N not only that even laughing at lewd remarks passed on her ..she is dumb?I doubt ..Alia was the coveted award winner ..
at one place they made a comment that deepika is hooked to Ranvir Singh as she could not get Ranbir ,,for a second there was some embarrassment .. on her face ..
Deepu "when you are in dirt ..some spots will be on your face too "
 ..Karan johar a well known producer director and respected person actually using abusive language n showing filth is his mind though his tongue and then by his actions .. 
I was like really..Karan ?? you parenting was not done right .. some loop holes we can see .. I was toatlly shattered when I saw Karan Johar mother laughing at those jokes enjoying,,,I mean wht wrong here .. some kind of lunatic attack....MORONS
...I was warned by one of friends not to watch this show as its very vulgar ... unexpectedly bad .. a very bad satire ,, only Karan , Arjun and pervert Ranvir can understand ,,,
I still took a chance ..wht language    ..phew!
..all of them should be booked for showing filth of their mind and kept in prison so that it sets an examples to others in line ..
India already is in red with number of rape cases N no security for women  many other things go unattended  ,,,,do we need more stuff ...hard to handle..
then candle light march with white clothes that drama .. !!!
I mean Guys show some decency ,, 
and ladies in audience show some respect ..leave the venue in resentment ,,,show guts!

I had recently given my opinion on this at one of the post in times of india ..jus what I felt ..its had huge applause and likes 
check the link below.

Happy New Year 2015

.. happy new yr to all my friends .. God bless you all ..
happiness and prosperity and well being of everyone .. no messing up on blogs and social networking .. keeping self esteem high .. respect and get respect in return ..
love you all

Swaach bharat VS swaach mentality

:( with so many rapes in India and men prowling at women we need to keep our thoughts clean rather then literally cleaning India .. we need to keep fear of law ,hard laws ,  capital punishments on Rape cases..
Don't not dare to touch otherwise the consequences can be brutal ..it should be a clear  message
I mean whats wrong in india..
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Delhi seems to be hitting the crime list .. broad daylight women raped .. ludhiana a minor raped and burnt .. where has humanity gone? so much filth in mind ,you can come to know from eve-teasing  this was 10 yrs back I m talking But now the scene is different goons are everywhere..
Uber case has again shocked the whole country .. no security for women.. we judge a women by clothes can we judge a rapist from his looks? I mean its horrifying .. devastating..  shame on country ..
couple of yrs back I had written a blog on this how in india things are getting bad as my aunt from New York was bruised by a chain snatcher..she never expected landing in emergency instead of going to her house .. and to this somebody really got offended and said India is the SAFEST place on earth as compared to US ..well I had nothing to debate or say cause I m an India first and US citizen later ..
The number of rape cases reported in US are much more and taken care as compared to India..many cases are not reported in india and some criminals are actually let free on bribe.. thats the saddest part..

Swaach bharat can come later right now the need is fear of law .. swaach mentality and that cannot be done in a day .. we need to raise our kids where there is respect for gender not only females  but males too .. this is a long process but FEAR of law and hard laws is one way to keep this at bay ..if found guilty the consequences should prove fatal.. 
I literally get very disturbed every morning reading news about women getting raped or burnt ..I mean after the brave heart case r..its been two yrs ..what did we do ?? wht strong steps are taken? 
poor females are harassed ,teased , stared .. even molested in broad day light .. the rotak story is not old where gurls had to take care of them self in bus and passenger were audience ..no body had guts to help girls.
India seems to be a place where Sex seems to be suppressed  .. I mean why guys are so desperate?
there are lot of brothels you can get a favor .. ..why not get your frustration out .. 
Born and lived in india for almost twenty year and seen most of india I have myself gone through many embarrassing cases as kid ..where I had seen men flashing and I had to turn my face other cases where someone try to touch in bus I had escaped ..then seen men staring "which is very very common"  passing lewd remarks even to the extent torching the bust in crowed places but always escaped ..where can one go to report? wht proof we can give? we have to be safe .. thats what always my mom said at home try to be with people don't wear skimpy clothes try to be at home on time .. and be smart traveller dont sit or get empty bus .. 
my experiences taught me so much by the time I reached university and studying in Hostel at punjab university Chandigarh india.. kept myself safe and distance for guys .. 

Getting married and coming to USA ..i was always covered ..my mentality was no shorts no skirts..jus tees and jeans or Capri but with time I learnt its safe and we are part of community nobody can dare as laws are very hard ..
I have been shopping on thanks giving till 2 am coming home at 4 am .. me and my sister but its safe 
police is around every corner .. security is on high alert for public ..in india I had seen this kind of security given to politicians only .. which is very sad.

I make a trip to water park every year in summer ..wearing my swimming suit and swimming all day .. moving around the pool area .. but feeling safe .. no body staring or passing remarks .. 
I see beautiful bodies well toned but no stares .. that's the beauty when we have SWAACH MENTALITY
Hot pool in water park is one place where everyone shares a small plce ..black white or brown skin skimpy clothes .. but no one stares or rapes happen .. check the pic below ..I had spend hours in this place.

.. apart from this at beach ..we see people wearing swim suits and taking sun bath .. if we check the dress in that case there should be more rape cases on beach but its not mentality is clean ..
I would cut short and conclude .. try raising a clean healthy mind whether girls or boys but good Swaach (clean ) mentality .. so future of india is clean and safe .. it will take time but we can do that ..
With Modi as PM of india hope we have clean government and hard laws implemented 
its clean un-corrupted people to rule and its a better place to live.

Poinsettias..

..Ever since I came to US I m in love with this plant .. the leaves itself are like cluster of flowers ..they speak for them self .. such vibrant beautiful colors hard to take your eyes off .. I was in Grocery store other day I felt like ..are they artificial? touching and getting a feel of texture ..the sparkles spread on them makes them even more prettier .. no doubt they stand for Christmas celebrations and invite everyone towards themselves.
Unaware of this plant.... to me its an Exotic one.. but rare ,pleasure to my eyes. Any color you pick its u unique..
My favorite one is RED ../burgundy but pumpkin orange is something I love too.
Purple was one I fell my eyes on and thought look at the richness .. seems like color pallet in front of me ..I touched the leaves again ,, the girl at grocery store looked at me and smiled .. "may I help you"
I said "oh no no I m jus trying to select the color .. thanks "
Am I paranoid ..what the heck am I doin.. looks awful.. quietly picked up the flowers I liked and went to ring them up.. 
Poinsettias have been always my favorite.. 
check my fav Poins 

Grocery store

flower shop

Happy Thanksgiving

my backyard.

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Happy thankgiving to all..
God bless everyone with happiness tranquility and perseverance..
thanks to the almighty who gave us everything for day to day to living and brought us to this beautiful world .. lets hope and pray together for well-being of everyone and peace in this world ..