friendship day..

siblings by chance,friends by choice!!!
I always believe in this phrase....few friends but good ones ..behind this theory...
friends I had many ...online and people I know personally but I kinda a gel with very few...it depends on comfort level too...and sense of humor .
Schools I have changed many since dad was in army and got posted every two to three years so kind a hard to remember the friends too...
Anju my school friend till date from my last school in Mumbai is the one I truly remember..and talk to her but she is not on fb or orkut..that's the agony!!!
Zeenu from New York another one I like ..is one good friend till date....
Simran from Delhi is another good friend I gel with..
Deepika from dubai is another pet friend of mine..Miss India ...
and ..online friends are many ...
Bloggers I like....
UMA.. I like her simplicity and her way of cooking in her blog.
Bikram....Avery true and simple person in his writings and thoughts reminds me often of my punjab :)
Gaurav...very practical and simple in his blog reminds me of mumbai :)
Dharamjit...MY first online blogger frd..seems to be lost in Hyderabad..no blogging nowadays..
Raj.....Very straight forward person.... like it or leave it ..attitude! in his blogs.
Karthik..I like his love stories...I laugh so loudly sometimes....all college and canteen stuff...
Chandrika shubham....Short and crisp blog... like crispy lays :)I like her writings...
Shahid...Nice, but very few blogs...once in blue moon :)
Haddock....His blogs are like vintage CARS....very nice, unique with personal pictures...
Shobhaa de..I am a fan of her writings... all blasts, straight on face...
Swats...the girl I can relate to ...in her blogs..
Shanu...very humorous ..thoughts in her writings...at times.
Its hard to keep up ...once we are married but I still try to keep link with everyone through blog or orkut or fb or cell... and its always reciprocal.
True friends who can die for you are all in books and films I haven't seen or tested anyone..and chances are bleak :P ....but to me friends in need are friends indeed..
*******HAPPY FRIENDSHIP DAY****

Tagged!

WEll Amigos by tagging me you have got me in a net ..So I guess time to reveal some secrets ..Bikram ...his blog "me and my random thoughts "seven things you don't know about me..Well I would say "seven secrets"...so..lets start...with the first one!

1) I am a sikh but born in ..Panagarh bengal ..dad was posted there at that time ..and after that seen most of India ..starting from J&K to all the way down south..changed at least ten Schools ...a challenge every time to prove myself...

2)Spent good ten years in Mumbai and then finally settled in Ludhiana...Did my masters in Bsness Administration from chandigarh and then two years of college in USA..in IT(programming).

3)My first job in India, immediately after masters was a lecturer in Boys college ..teaching under grads ..had some real good experiences in kicking out some guys from the college....after that it was total PEACE... NO messing up GUYS the message was clear..to ALL.

4)got married at the age of twenty three and coincidentally my hubby's best friend was in the same college where I taught..and I always wondered how he knew the color of my dress everyday...

5)not many people know my full name as HARMAN...I am very popular with my nick name its only after marriage this name became popular ha haa haaa....but my cousins ,friends and even hubby call me by the same nick name...my friends recognize me by my pic on orkut or face book. coz Harman is an official name only

6)All my online accounts are made by hubby ..whether its GMail or orkut or face book or twitter or blogs or my pictures ..that needs to be taken care of... I seriously don't have patience and time..but its trust between us..

7)last but not the least....not many people know this, I am daughter-in -law of an IAS (Indian Administrative services)officer and I am married ..to an Automotive engineer from US..who designs Cars..for GM, last year they released "Buick La Crosse"...in case if you are inquisitive to know!

that's it!..YO ...I am done!!!
I am not tagging anyone Coz I dont know many people here... except Uma and Bikram

I hope Zeenu you are happy to see my pictures now in the blog.

How many of you ..knew about me!!!lemme know..and thanks bikram once again!!
(I have removed my pictures now for some personal reasons)

global friendship..

Friendship around the globe..on-line friends..talking to one of my friends who was upset today as his girlfriend left him for no apparent reason..I was surprised when he told me she is trapped by a gang and they told her to delete him ,even this friend of mine ,his a/c was also deleted few days back and he had sent me a message from his second ID saying somebody played dirty with him and deleted his account as his password was hacked.. I am surprised what kinda place is orkut??.no security..every other day password is hacked,people take out grudges on each other...but trapped by a gang is a big lie,I cannot believe somebody can force you to delete your friend and blackmail you for not talking to him...we are all educated people and know exactly where the help is available whether its India or US ..these stories are fake like being trapped or blackmailed ,its just an excuse to ditch your boyfriend or delete him from your friends list ,its a clear cut signal to stay away ,as you are unwanted and there is somebody else in the picture....I told my friend,he was in tears as she played with his emotions taking him for a stride.. talking to him on his cell everyday and now building up stories..both of these are in my friends list..
This guy is an MBA,I believe marketing manager holding a good position in a corporate and I think drawing a six figure salary .. very sincere and sensitive person..the girl as far as I know is a computer wizard very smart in graphics and good looking person..I usually get best scraps from her..don't know the whole story ..but looks like this gurl is dumping the guy but doesn't have guts or courage to tell the real reason.. so building up stories... Well there are all types of people in this world ..
But I am happy ...since one of my old friends is back in my friends list... My all good friends are stars of my friends list ..they glow,twinkle and make me smile too... I definitely miss them when they are not in my friends list...