Happy New Year 2015

.. happy new yr to all my friends .. God bless you all ..
happiness and prosperity and well being of everyone .. no messing up on blogs and social networking .. keeping self esteem high .. respect and get respect in return ..
love you all

Swaach bharat VS swaach mentality

:( with so many rapes in India and men prowling at women we need to keep our thoughts clean rather then literally cleaning India .. we need to keep fear of law ,hard laws ,  capital punishments on Rape cases..
Don't not dare to touch otherwise the consequences can be brutal ..it should be a clear  message
I mean whats wrong in india..
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Delhi seems to be hitting the crime list .. broad daylight women raped .. ludhiana a minor raped and burnt .. where has humanity gone? so much filth in mind ,you can come to know from eve-teasing  this was 10 yrs back I m talking But now the scene is different goons are everywhere..
Uber case has again shocked the whole country .. no security for women.. we judge a women by clothes can we judge a rapist from his looks? I mean its horrifying .. devastating..  shame on country ..
couple of yrs back I had written a blog on this how in india things are getting bad as my aunt from New York was bruised by a chain snatcher..she never expected landing in emergency instead of going to her house .. and to this somebody really got offended and said India is the SAFEST place on earth as compared to US ..well I had nothing to debate or say cause I m an India first and US citizen later ..
The number of rape cases reported in US are much more and taken care as compared to India..many cases are not reported in india and some criminals are actually let free on bribe.. thats the saddest part..

Swaach bharat can come later right now the need is fear of law .. swaach mentality and that cannot be done in a day .. we need to raise our kids where there is respect for gender not only females  but males too .. this is a long process but FEAR of law and hard laws is one way to keep this at bay ..if found guilty the consequences should prove fatal.. 
I literally get very disturbed every morning reading news about women getting raped or burnt ..I mean after the brave heart case r..its been two yrs ..what did we do ?? wht strong steps are taken? 
poor females are harassed ,teased , stared .. even molested in broad day light .. the rotak story is not old where gurls had to take care of them self in bus and passenger were audience ..no body had guts to help girls.
India seems to be a place where Sex seems to be suppressed  .. I mean why guys are so desperate?
there are lot of brothels you can get a favor .. ..why not get your frustration out .. 
Born and lived in india for almost twenty year and seen most of india I have myself gone through many embarrassing cases as kid ..where I had seen men flashing and I had to turn my face other cases where someone try to touch in bus I had escaped ..then seen men staring "which is very very common"  passing lewd remarks even to the extent torching the bust in crowed places but always escaped ..where can one go to report? wht proof we can give? we have to be safe .. thats what always my mom said at home try to be with people don't wear skimpy clothes try to be at home on time .. and be smart traveller dont sit or get empty bus .. 
my experiences taught me so much by the time I reached university and studying in Hostel at punjab university Chandigarh india.. kept myself safe and distance for guys .. 

Getting married and coming to USA ..i was always covered ..my mentality was no shorts no skirts..jus tees and jeans or Capri but with time I learnt its safe and we are part of community nobody can dare as laws are very hard ..
I have been shopping on thanks giving till 2 am coming home at 4 am .. me and my sister but its safe 
police is around every corner .. security is on high alert for public ..in india I had seen this kind of security given to politicians only .. which is very sad.

I make a trip to water park every year in summer ..wearing my swimming suit and swimming all day .. moving around the pool area .. but feeling safe .. no body staring or passing remarks .. 
I see beautiful bodies well toned but no stares .. that's the beauty when we have SWAACH MENTALITY
Hot pool in water park is one place where everyone shares a small plce ..black white or brown skin skimpy clothes .. but no one stares or rapes happen .. check the pic below ..I had spend hours in this place.

.. apart from this at beach ..we see people wearing swim suits and taking sun bath .. if we check the dress in that case there should be more rape cases on beach but its not mentality is clean ..
I would cut short and conclude .. try raising a clean healthy mind whether girls or boys but good Swaach (clean ) mentality .. so future of india is clean and safe .. it will take time but we can do that ..
With Modi as PM of india hope we have clean government and hard laws implemented 
its clean un-corrupted people to rule and its a better place to live.

Poinsettias..

..Ever since I came to US I m in love with this plant .. the leaves itself are like cluster of flowers ..they speak for them self .. such vibrant beautiful colors hard to take your eyes off .. I was in Grocery store other day I felt like ..are they artificial? touching and getting a feel of texture ..the sparkles spread on them makes them even more prettier .. no doubt they stand for Christmas celebrations and invite everyone towards themselves.
Unaware of this plant.... to me its an Exotic one.. but rare ,pleasure to my eyes. Any color you pick its u unique..
My favorite one is RED ../burgundy but pumpkin orange is something I love too.
Purple was one I fell my eyes on and thought look at the richness .. seems like color pallet in front of me ..I touched the leaves again ,, the girl at grocery store looked at me and smiled .. "may I help you"
I said "oh no no I m jus trying to select the color .. thanks "
Am I paranoid ..what the heck am I doin.. looks awful.. quietly picked up the flowers I liked and went to ring them up.. 
Poinsettias have been always my favorite.. 
check my fav Poins 

Grocery store

flower shop

Happy Thanksgiving

my backyard.

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Happy thankgiving to all..
God bless everyone with happiness tranquility and perseverance..
thanks to the almighty who gave us everything for day to day to living and brought us to this beautiful world .. lets hope and pray together for well-being of everyone and peace in this world ..

..Snow n slush .. back to winters

Beautiful fall season and now its White as snow ..heading towards Christmas ..

Mother nature at its best ,, its matter of time

Winters..

....this yr snow started before thanksgiving .. its not good ..Super duper cold n guess what snow before fall season is finally over ,, God has his own nature plan..But plzz think about Black friday sales .. hows it possible in this chill .. anywys ..where there is will there is away ..:)
my wish list ..
A goose down jacket
.. A very very sexy pair  of  BOOTS 
A beautiful suede leggings in TAN color
..last and not the least ..A red gigantic RUBY ring :)

..I m bundled up every morning ..my day starts at 5 am .. hit the road at 6:30 but before that  wear my boots , hat , gloves , scarf , leg warmer , jacket ..then looking at the mirror I feel I m all set to go for war..
Living in Michigan is like living in north pole ..its scary , dark and very very Cold.. my winter blues started this yr soon ..pray to babaji (my lord) this yr should not be like last yr 2013 where we were stuck in our houses life disrupted .. schools closed .. once in a while its ok but repetition make its worse.. its scary!!
..I have given a kick start to winters this yr by supporting it with my pink cap.,.
:)

black and white

... I never understood the black and white logic..

Recently .. a picture posted by one of the relatives where Guy in white hair n beard and women in jet black..I thought of daughter and father but was very soon corrected by my mom as husband and wife..
I m like really??
where guy going so cool and girl looks HoT!!
well no answers ..personal choice I guess..
Then on other day JUHI chawla posted her pictures with hubby ,,,I thought some UNCLE then re-collected oh its Jai her husband.. But gurl why do you want to be Chick and  he should be a monk ..
No match  .. I am confused ..
.. We marry we respect why not age together .. gracefully..

I was very young that time may be 15 yrs  ..someone came to meet my DAD .. and looked perfect with his dyed hair , smile and beaming confidence and then I saw an old lady at the back slowly walking ..I said "uncle your mom also came?" I went outside to greet the old lady ..
This uncle was so embarrassed I heard him saying several times to dad that he has to stop dyeing or his wife should start coloring there should be no confusion .. I m like why say here it should have been done earlier..
After he went Dad called me and asked ..why are you so blunt ..?? I was like I said wht I felt .. and sorry for behavior in future would ask you its wife or mother ? before making a comment.. ;-)

.. so Guys and Gals if you have greys showing up move with confidence ..and tell your partner the same .. if one doesn't agree other should start dyeing .,, so that you look like a couple and not like father and daughter.

proof

have a Good one keep smiling !!