Indian American...

YES!!! Indian American are people who r born here in USA...or came here as toddlers.. Initially I was surprised to see these people ,many of them dont know about India and its culture..They have never been to India.. its been years for them..SAD!!!
Me ,coming to USA for the first time was a big cultural shock too.. seeing people getting intimate publicly and teenage pregnancy or gay culture or we can say dressing sense of people, practically wearing nothing was a big big shock... I always smiled ..at these petty things..
Still the beach culture I am surprised how people can ...jus move around ..guys and gals ...with skimpy outfits....
Summers ..on stores only ..shorts or Capri's r available.. people just take off their clothes and walk around in mallz... Gurls specially teenagers ...jus dont mind wearing anything..but..short.. all funky hairstyles ..purple or green hair... and lotz of make-up... SWEET...

..American dream

YUP...its American dream hundreds of Indian come here to chase... but what is American dream..A happy full fledged life?..want to be a millionaire?
No in my prospective, its happiness and blessings one requires...Yes USA is a land of opportunities but then again life is very hard... getting up early for work and working like a DOG .. no fun at work..jus work ..and no mistakes with lotz of positive results to be shown at the end of the year...
Yes Dollar plays a significant role with lots of overtime...(not in recession)but then what.. Big house..status luxury car.. big bank balance and lotz of vacations.. Yes in America,this is an American dream... many people live and flaunt it too....
Yup..today ..market scenario is soo bad cant play with jobs and money... SAVE SAVE SAVE
yourself....
God Bless...

CRUSH>>>

YES>>
CRUSH.....
Guess..what????
if u know...jus... send me a message...or... wait....

ya..General Motors...

Ya GM..is filing for bankruptcy on Monday.... very sad ..another big giants coming down...
Auto industry in Sorry state.. many people will be jobless again...Suppliers will be effected too,share market showin up GMs share as jus thirty seven cent..pathetic...Fate of many people will be decided on monday...Already there is eleven percent unemployment showing up...after this the unemployment rate Will go up again.. it might take yrs now to fix the economy...
GOD..BLESS..AMERICA

Summers in America..

YES...Summers in America is too good...Its beautiful and blessed.. Bright sunny morning with beautiful flowers all around and smell of fresh flowers is nothing but a bliss. .The whole surrounding is green with lush green lawns and beautiful flowers like tulips and perennials are seen along the path way.I.sometimes envy why we don't have this kind of season and surroundings in India. but then God has his own decisions...cant mess with it..Up north Michigan even beautiful ,it has all spring colors like purple weeds with yellow and pink flowers all the way up to the hills..Then comes the lake part..Michigan is full of lakes ..lake superior is the biggest and best..beaches are the fun part..Every summers we spent some tyme on beaches and resorts...
I hate the winters in Michigan as they r not only messy but its like going to another planet for six months.. All winter with coats and jackets and snow shoes with gloves ,hat and scarves,but still the temperature is below freezing..Black ice,slush,snow,freezing rain.. name it and we have it here...
Indian winters are good though ,not freezing like USA and nice for basking too..
though I never wanted to sit in sun in India ..but here in USA I miss that part now...
Human Nature I guess...

America.. under recession..

Yes..its big time recession for USA and rest of the world..It is malignant ...big time issue.I have seen USA falling like a pack of cards one by one.Good God gracious ,never can believe my eyes..like 9/11 incident, I saw in front of the television..major set back..
The recession factor started with fraudulent transactions on higher level...at one point,there was loan available to everyone.no matter what credit history was or how big the pay check was... bribery at higher level.. its was total debt ... banks came tumbling down, houses.. mortgages were not paid ..with the result ..it was taken by banks.. banks with lot of debt filed bankruptcy and ..then came into the picture major companies and their bankruptcy..
Giants like Benz people ,Chrysler filed bankruptcy..General motors share came down ,ford in shambles.. people loosing jobs.. houses r not selling ..people going back to India.. almost 100000..people has gone back home... its pathetic..
"God Bless America"

mothers day..

Mothers day was soo good.. had whole family together..all proud moms together.
Usually we celebrate with mom and dad..and my other family members..but this year it was fun coz we had party in the morning and then afternoon collecting the gifts for one another.
evening decked up.. to celebrate ..
I got a diamond ring by monty.. another one in my finger....
Actually he is soo funny alwys forgets and then tells me to buy something ,and in front of whole family its shown he never forgets any occassion and such a good husband..
..I sometimes buy for myself before occassion...and give it to him ..he innocently asks me.. any occassion is comin up..
ha haaa ...

,,Miss..in

ya.. missing u dear...gone for a week...to Missouri..state..will be back by Friday...
you r doing good I am happy for you..life is a struggle with work..new launch..of a car...by Gm is good..anyways..weekend ahead..will have sometime together...
Monty...my hubby...

tired..

ya..sooo tired..at the end of the day..sitting on my desktop.. listing to some good music to get some relief.. after the day...
Jagjit singhs ghazals..... sooo..cool and soothing ..pouring all the tiredness into the drain...
Morning is like sunshine with lotz of energy but as the day passes by ..the level of strength goes down.. and at night its like passing out situation.. But this is only if I start early in the morning at six.. its exhausting...
anyways.. a walk outside.. with lotz of flowers on the street and nice cool breeze.. with smell of lilac flowers it is like heaven for few minutes... Love it!

Trust..

Ya.. trust is the word..that's keeps my relationship alive...Married and keeping a balance between my personal life and friends is trust.. between any relationship..
Yes people do ask me sometimes that does my husband approve my talk in..or chattin.... on net...
First of all ,I have very few selected frds whom I chat with..may be two or three guys I do not know personally..whom I chat with..and then I think every educated ,sensible married female knows what she is talkin and not getting carried away,keeping limit of the conversation ...Yes my husband knows I chat with unknown people on net... No ,he doesn't say anythin.. he knows me soo well that seen me loosing my temper on net and deleting people..
Once a guy was troubling me on net ..I was so upset, anytime I logged in ..he was there sending messages.scraps..all those flirtin kind.. I was at home,seeing my face expression..monty (hubby)knew somethin is wrong.. and guessed ... he logged in my other computer at home.. and deleted the guy before I knew..I have put a safety key now ..or lock..not acceptin any more friends..
that is trust... Its surprising though that my orkut account has been made by husband ..though the profile is written by me... he wanted me to come on net and make some frds seeing the amt of work I do and always busy in my own world...Initially I was never online ..once a week ..to check scraps... but with frds coming inn I had to change my schedule.
Sometimes..seeing the number of frds I have on orkut ..my family.. and friends r surprised but guys..they r jus... online frds.. and for sure..
Yes..I have some reservations too..

hardship...

I am in phase of life goin thru lot of hardship.. my routine starts six in the morning and I am on my pinky toes till ten at night.. Goin to gym.. leaving the kid to school.. goin for work..Workin whole day..like..DOG... and then comin back ..with work at home... and like havin a small kid..is jus full time job...Man..its like kick on the butt...
Today I talked to my parents after almost twenty days... no time..jus ..lotz of work...I feel sometime this is my American Dream.. I am chasing.. but then everywhere there is hardship...
I talk to my cousin everyday..tell my problems to her..the only person... whom I can talk with, like that..
..Weekend is a big relief... this weekend we r throwing a party..so again lotz of work ahead...
God bless...