love at first sight

..I think I m among very few people in this world .. who has never gone through love at first sight .. when people come and tell me .."OMGD I m head over heels in love with him ...I m like ..is it ..jus at looks ??
I remember ..when I liked someone ..it took me couple of years to get into this love thing ..but then again not sure of myself ..and looking at my strict mother and Dad who served indian Army ..I was like .. it would be a war at home better keep this to myself and lead a care-free life .
..Life these days is very fast ..girls like to date .. check the bank balances and then give a chance ,,..
With chance I mean ..give it a try .. for your sexual needs ..which to me is disgusting !!
..I had friends in those days too when studying at Punjab University Chandigarh..doin all the stuff which was a big NO in indian community .. But then like dare devils they had broken all rules...
they dated .. fulfilled their desires ..and now I see them ..passing statements at others...

Coming to love at first sight ... wht do you love when you see a person at first?? looks , gestures..??
..well I would say how abt a car ..a sports car?? but then you need to spend life with him or sports car?? 
generally people ask .."hey in india you guys have arranged marriages??I m like yeah ..so??
so whts the criteria ??..is it money ,looks , education ... ..I was like I never .. thought of money ..yeah education was must cuz ..I hate people who have no manners ..or not so educated!!
.. but then ..how can you love a stranger?? I m like how can you like a person at first sight without even knowing him or her??
...A friend of mine ...  she is like you know the guy I dated before was so nice .. he knew to cook ...ironing the clothes  was the best part of him keeping house well-maintained .. but things dint work .. his job wasn't paying enough.. I thought I guessed it right ..poor thing spending all time at home ..where is time to make money!
..to my mind people who have love at first sight actually have no brains ... or should I say .. dumb?.
people say you fall in love ..but I would say ..rise in love use your brain...
..Arranged or love marriage give it a time ..use your own brain .. think before you jump to a decision ... livin relationships or commitment of marriage .. needs to be a wise decision ...
:)