Tuesday, March 8, 2011

..women's day.....

my post is dedicated to all the women's.. all over the world on international Women's day.....
...there is no field or profession where women cannot be seen......they have surpassed all the assumptions and myths...BUT...still women faces many challenges ..or bars set by men!
Indian..women still faces many hardships and rejections in male dominated Indian society..women are still vulnerable to all types of violence including Abuse... physical or emotional. our nation still need to have some hard laws..when it comes to women’s rights.


....Indian society..we still have  celebration which goes as per gender only....Son ..as legal heir..and most of the will or property goes to him...unless decided! Dowry ...is still very prevalent....they don't ask openly ..But expectations are there!...


Recently on of my relatives posted some pictures from India..showing up the grand wedding that took place...it was shocking for me to see the amount of money spent by girls parents....I wish they could have done same for her studies...where a girl could have a strong footage ..and nobody had any expectations from her in future...in fact lot of respect for her knowledge and awareness!!


 ..The commercials..if we see most of the time..its women with the laundry or dishes..or cooking in the kitchen..did ya ever happen to see men..doing the same ..its rare!!this is common ,women are meant for these kind of work!confined to the four walls of house!
on the contrary there have been women who made a mark in the society..and left everyone spell bound..whether it wasIndira Nooyi, Kalpana Chawla, Sunita Williams, Pratibha Patil and others.,BUT..they are jus few..a handful...rest eighty percent are still in that sphere..and stretch...where its overlooked and expected as normal chore...not realizing the hard work and effort without any gratitude!


women are legal citizens of the country and have equal rights with men (Indian Parliament). Because of a lack of acceptance from the male dominant society, Indian women suffer immensely. Everybody reading this article would surely agree that many women find it difficult to return to work after having children. One of the reasons being that there are rarely any provisions made for childcare in the workplace and, in these cases, women are forced to find someone to look after the children while they are at work. Most of the neutral families need two incomes to enjoy a good standard of living, where a woman finds herself doing two jobs – one at office and the other at home. So the position of women has rather deteriorated than improving.


..as a kid I always heard from my mom what ladies in villages had to go through and when they were uneducated...how they suffered .....so..first and the foremost...is providing good education at professional level...and then saying No to dowry!!....we don't need to make others happy....but our self and our kids first...
we don't need to join that heard of sheep's....or follow blindly what others are doing!set and make your own principles....lets others follow you!
Save the girl child and respect women!

Indira Nooyi...Chairman &CEO Pepsi Co

Saturday, March 5, 2011

Weekend!

...its yet another weekend!
one my favorite songs ....One of the most beautiful compositions...and lovely words... only when you feel that for someone you love and respect!
lets finsh the weekend with one of my favorite songs..

Juhi chawla..one of the cutest actress indian industry has...I think...even if she is seventy years old she will look same!I  am not a big fan of Sharukh khan!as a actor he is good!but with lots of airs and attitude..

the song says...
"I never thought We would meet like that......and flower's to bloom in our the way like this,
never thought life would be  be so nice,..looks like the earth  and sky.... singing for us!
my heart has those branches of love like buds , when our eyes met....."

Never thought..we would loose our senses..when we are going to be together....:)
I never thought it would be like this when we meet each other!!
"....its a twinkling night, when we..are awake.....
looks like ..a caravan of stars moving in the sky......."

"never thought one day..it would be like this ,when our path
would be filled with lamps and light like this....."
"Never thought life would be so beautiful ...when we meet each other"
 have a nice weekend!

Thursday, March 3, 2011

spare a thought!!!

...spare a thought for the poor,suffered and ill treated...
I was really upset to see  an old women sitting homeless and asking for alms,crippled and nobody to look after...its Sad!!
its really sad to see...a mother carrying a small baby having a down syndrome or to see old age homes full of people and nobody who visits them...they sit  in the lobby whole day that somebody will show up one day!
it hurts...what if I am at their place? what will happen..I usually think...
then I am so relieved that I am blessed with good family and healthy kids and good parents..with enough to survive..I should never complain....
.....there is so much suffering in the world,any country you pick..there is an issue which is yet to be resolved,innocents killed..children sold, women in prostitution,drug trafficking ..and misfortunes .....
men and women slaughtered "the Palestinians and the Israelis" ...inhuman act of violence..who cares...we are safe in our little world,those pictures if you see,it gives me goose bumps...
still these people manage to survive in worst of conditions displaying their courage and smile on face..they may be underprivileged but fighters in real life,a cut above rest to show their courage and come up as winners!
they will walk miles to get water, one meal a day,malnutritioned kids...but still manage to survive...

when I open a faucet....I look at the easily availability of water..or switch on the light...jus a click away..no hassles,what If I had to do that hard work....I will die,for sure!.....so much suffering for a single meal?
What great inspiration we can all take from these magnanimous human beings!
spare a thought and try to help other,if not financially ..then emotionally..visit old homes...even though they are not our relatives ,help and be courteous...
we are privileged,we are blessed..thanks to almighty!
spare a thought on this.... my friends!

Tuesday, March 1, 2011

overloaded








....Plz....you can see the population explosion here....try not to have more then two kids......do you want the country to be in Caos like this!!
open your eyes and ears its never too late!

Friday, February 25, 2011

memories!


its one of my fav songs again........some sweet memories from the past....we are at the end of the week..its friday...what a beautiful song...sung by Indian legend Mohammed Rafi...and Dev Anand as Superstar of yesteryear.
it says..(this guy is an architect engineer.. he makes houses...and sings)

"I will make a house one day ...in-front of your house,
  spread my world in-front of your house,"
(The girl says)    its not easy to make a house ,and spread your world is not an easy thing.
(the boy says)   if you love somebody nothing is hard..and all troubles are off the shore ,I will give up my life for you!
(the girl says)...love is something you have to fight and cross a river on fire,or some kind of addiction which is mystery of life...
(The boys says)..if you love somebody...river on fire can be converted to flowers... and every other trouble can be put to rest...I will decorate stars in-front of your house!
"I will make a house in-front of your house"
(..girl says)...this path of love is made of thorns ,lets see what you will do for your love!
(Boy..says)..many people made history for their love.Taj Mahal was also made for love...I will also make something for you!
the girl then says..lets see!
"I will make a house in-front of your house one day"

happy weekend!

Thursday, February 24, 2011

jinx.

 
there are six people in a small barn house...its a stormy day..the whether forecast says thunderstorm and lighting ..the people who are stuck in the barn house are villagers who came on farms to work,but  among them is an old lady with his grandson, "Dave " who is supposed to be jinx  in the  village...his parents died when he was born.. it was a car crash,his grandma was under lot of debts ever since he was born...the village people said "if Dave plays with some kid in the village that child is sure to fall sick ,if Dave gets a ride in the car its bound to have a car crash...they avoided him!made fun of his grand ma whom he loved a lot,they were ill treated Dave was more often called."Jinky"
Due to thunderstorm and lighting ,everyone was scared.... 
they wanted to throw a four year old Dave out of the barn house ...so that they are saved and lighting would go out of their way ...they pushed  Dave out!! ..Grand ma Cried, and came out to save Dave...it was raining...one of the guys looking at the old lady also came out to bring her back ,looking at them the other three also came out to take the old lady back to barn and leave  Dave,But God had something in mind that day...all  six were saved and Lighting..fell on the vacant barn ..which was turned to ashes in the spur of the moment !!
Everyone was Saved due to Dave! 


(I saw this short story on Tv years  back as a kid.....which said "Nobody is Jinx" .....its just the correlation of instances that make people think or relate to take out their personal grudges!)

Wednesday, February 23, 2011

resemblence!!

(Sonakshi sinha -Reena roy)

Sonakshi Sinha
(Sonakshi Sinha -Reena Roy)
do you resemble anyone other then your family members? usually we hear she resembles this bollywood star or Hollywood star...and its taken as compliment...But when I saw Sonakshi Sinha..daughter of Indian bollywood star Shatrughan Sinha...it was long back in one of the Indian magazines, before Dabaang movie was released,I was surprised...Oh My God!! I said she resembles ..Reena Roy ..one of the bollywood actresses of yesteryear and coincidentally this lady Reena Roy was shatrughan sinha's Girl friend at one time ..it was a very close relationship I still remember it..
...when this Girl Sonakshi Sinha came in Movie Dabaang..I was amazed to see..how well the face cut and features are..which goes with Reena roy very well!
I told my husband who was listening to my bollywood gossip...he usually calls me encyclopedia of bollywood :) but I don't mind since my knowledge is vast and better then him :Din terms of bollywood...isnt it amazing?I asked my hubby...he smiled...".may be he was always thinking about her when his wife was expecting this baby..."
I said "that's bad then" the proof is in-front of India.....
this shows his love and loyalty towards his wife...
what do you think??