Sunday, April 26, 2009

weekend..!!!!!

WEEkend ..was so good this...week..lotz of sun and fresh air..with family and friens..
We had a party at the beach ,one of our relative have a property at the lake shore ..its sooo beautiful..Huge house with sunroom on the lake..and the deck right on the edge of water.. simply awesome..love it....motor boats..sailing.. and to end with a quite peaceful sunset....The party started at 4.pm and we came back at 11 pm..so much fun for a day...
Usually we have parties on weekend.. during summers..almost every weekend..,once a month we have a gathering....We r a group of almost fifty people.. all couples ,these r special friends we meet, as otherwise everyone is busy..We usually wear Indian outfits coz..this is the only place we wear Indian dresses...Other wise its usually..jeans.. or western outfits..
The parties here in USA r quite different.. its a layout..First.. the guests r served with snacks...a whole lot of food.. like twenty of those with different drinks..liquor,wine tequila shots..with lime and salt..men enjoy so much ..cocktails,soft drinks.. and many others like punch ,juices..etc.sometimes there is bingo..or a couple game is played..as per the occasion,then comes the DJ ..the opening dance is done by the host couple on dance floor.. its usually a duet.. and then its open Dance....
But I have seen here people drink very wisely.. and women..they drink like anything..but never tipsy..The laws here r very strict.."no drunk driving"..so one person limits himself or herself..
NO I DON DRINK..,yes many people force me coz..they have a champagne ceremony at weddings and its a toast..so jus for a taste...
Yes I have tasted almost all of the drinks..but cant handle them as I get tipsy soon..so decided not to drink in any case...as its embarrassing.. and women should carry grace and dignity...
I like to dance though ...on music..with friends as my hubby doesn't dance..he is more of an introvert person.. Usually its Punjabi music.. JAzzy B.. babbu maan ..very popular overseas.. Their songs make everyone dance.. We r proud of these singers...
. The dinner is served midnight...lotz of food again..usually..its Indian food...with nice desserts..
The whole party thing is fun..But lotz of work for the host...
We usually throw party once a YEAR and tired for a week... Kidding!!!

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