..split personality....

(...I usually write blogs on my varied experiences and people I meet...Something like Adult content I usually avoid reading or writing , maybe something I don't feel comfortable...
about females or my counter parts I generally try to be respectful in my blogs unless something really provokes me to write or something as eye opener)

..this lady I had heard and seen many times in public gathering and even on the political side ...covered by media!
I always wandered  why she flaunts  and tries to be a social figure ...though I never knew about her background and her source of money.....
I saw her with her husband and kids all the time....


...pondering over this thought one day to one of my friends I asked  about this women ....as to whose (industrialist )wife is she???
...when I heard ,I mean to hear such things about women was such a shame ...Character being ripped into pieces....I didn't believe her..cause how is it possible ...she is always accompanied by her family!!!
...It was then one day I saw her in a news paper for a campaign ..I was surprised by her looks and dressing sense,it was hard to recognise...she was the only women surrounded by men....it was a social gathering ....


.... sometime back I met one of my friends who's hubby is a fashion photographer....he is very popular in photography field.....I asked her as to who this women is???
..she said"this women migrated to US some thirty or forty yrs back and at that time immigrants were few ..and community was small she was a loner and she made money by all wrong means...or in other words ..she was a big time "SLUT"...
and guy she is married to ..knows everything and doesn't mind ....
....To me it was a shock.... as to what kind of Guy is that?? and now that they have lot of rental properties ..my Friend said...she does lot of charity work
CHARITY..I asked?? this kind of B****
After that I met many people who knew about her past.... but generally people have no respect for her...they laugh,make fun and crack jokes!!!
...with money there should be respect and dignity...A women's shines by her character good or bad!and so much desperation for money where you start selling yourself..is something not identified and agreeable with girls from good families!
what kind of examples are you setting up for your kids....?? it will take generations to get rid of this image ..even though there is open culture here but ... when it come to our culture and thinking as INDIANS ..the community doesn't spare anyone!
..A motherly figure and tag along is something where everybody takes you as laughing stock even though you have tons of money BUT no respect...people avoid you ...try not to stand next to you or even at times pretends not knowing you as friend!
what is use of this money at the end of the day? which brings only insults and disgrace!